BY GLENN PEASE
CONTENTS
1. INCURABLE OPTIMISM Based on
Phil. 1:1‑11
2. JOYFUL SAINTS Based on Phil.
1:1‑11
3. EDUCATED LOVE Based on Phil.
1:1‑11
4. ENVIOUS CHRISTIANS Based on
Phil. 1:12‑18
5. GOOD OUT OF EVIL Based on
Phil. 1:12‑26
6. FANATIC FOR JESUS Based on
Phil. 1:18‑26
7. COURAGEOUS FOR CHRIST Based
on Phil. 1:19‑26
8. PARTNERS WITH GOD Based on
Phil 1:19‑26
9. THE PRAYER OF THANKSGIVING based on Phil. 1:3‑6
10. THE SACRIFICIAL PERSPECTIVE
Based on Phil. 2:1‑11
11. A SEASON TO BE SELFLESS
Based on Phil. 2:1‑11
12. RECIPE FOR A MERRY CHRISTMAS based on Phil. 2:1‑4
13. ENCOURAGEMENT ENCOURAGES ENCOURAGERS. 2:1f
14. THE PROBLEM AND SOLUTION
Based on Phil. 2:1‑11
15. THE POWER OF THE RESURRECTION
Phil. 3:1‑16
16. A FUTURE WITH FOCUS Based
on Phil. 3:7‑14
17. THE GREATEST EDUCATION
Based on Phil. 3:8
18. PRESSING ON Based on Phil.
3:10‑21
19. GIVERS BY CHOICE Based on
Phil. 4:10‑20
1. INCURABLE OPTIMISM Based
on Phil. 1:1‑11
The
things that can go wrong in Christian service could fill an encyclopedia. Tal Bonham has recorded just a few. A note in the bulletin said, "Ladies
don't forget the rummage sale. It is a
good chance to get rid of those things not worth keeping around the house. Bring your husbands." He tells of a
pastor who preached on Samson, and unknowingly called him Tarzan through the
whole sermon. Another pastor, when he
asked, who had special prayer requests to raise their hands, had his mind on
the previous business meeting, and he said, "All those opposed, same
sign." Another pastor introduced
the new choir director by saying, "We are delighted he is coming to lead
us in our sinning."
Even
Billy Graham has made his occasional slip of the tongue. The police chief of Memphis, Tenn. asked him to help promote their traffic
safety campaign. So Graham pointed to
the large neon sign which said 150 days.
"You see that sign," he said, "That means that there has
been 150 days without a fertility."
His mistake was not a fatality, but it was terribly embarrassing. Several world renowned clergymen almost fell
off the platform in hysterics. Chuck
Swindoll preaching on Joshua at Jericho meant to say, "They circumscribed
the wall," but it came out, "They circumcised the wall." It brought the house down. The point is, you have got to be an optimist
to believe God can use such a fallible creature as man to accomplish His will
on earth.
Paul was
just such an optimist, and the main message of his letter to the Philippians is
that everyone who is a believer in Jesus Christ is obligated to be an
optimist. Paul says, "Rejoice in
the Lord always," and just in case you didn't hear, he says it again,
"and again I say rejoice."
Pessimism is one of the greatest sins of the Christian, and Paul fights
that negative spirit in this letter. It
is a sin for a Christian to be ever gripping, complaining, and grumbling. Behind every silver lining some Christians
can find a dark cloud. Their pessimism
becomes a bad habit. It is like
swearing. Some people do it so often
they don't even realize they are doing it.
So it is possible to think negative so often that you don't even realize
you are being a pessimist.
Like the
persistent pessimist who grumbled to his neighbor, "My hen hatched out 12
chicks, and all of them died but 11."
The negative had distorted a positive reality into a negative
feeling. This habitual focus on the
negative leads to the unconscious prayer of the pessimist‑"Give us
this day our daily dread." If you
are going to focus your attention on the problems of life, then anyone can be a
pessimist, for problems are part of every life, and Paul the optimist was no
exception. He was not writing this
letter of joy from his yacht in the Mediterranean, or from a luxury villa in
Rome. It was written from a prison, and
not from the warden's office either, but from the dungeon. He was there unjustly for serving his Lord,
and blessing people with the good news of the Gospel. Yet, out of this unfair and unjust suffering Paul does not fire
off a bitter letter of anger, but a letter of joy and optimism about the church
and God's plan for it.
This
optimistic letter has been used of God to comfort, encourage, and challenge
Christians all through history to be optimists in a fallen world. Gene Daille, the great French expositor told
of how deeply the Indians of the new world were impressed by the white man's
ability to put marks on a piece of paper, and then convey it to another at a
great distance, and thereby, bear a message to them. Letters were magic to them.
It is marvelous to us too when you think of it. By means of letters the Apostle Paul, long
dead, can go on speaking to the church all over the world, and urge them to
rejoice always, and be incurable optimists.
Paul was the first in a long line of Christian writers who wrote
Christian literature in prison that influenced the church to be optimistic in
spite of problems.
We have
to face this reality, however. Paul had
more reason to be optimistic about the Philippians than other churches to which
he wrote. We need to see honestly that
Paul had a different relationship with this church then other churches. There was a loving friendship here that was
not the case with others. He had to
scold and blast the Corinthians, and focus on their many defects in ways that
do not happen in this letter. Paul
Rees, the one time great Twin City preacher, wrote, "Philippians gives us
a Paul we do not see, for example in Galatians or Corinthians. It is natural that we wonder if the
theologian has not been swallowed up in the friend."" Professor David
Smith calls it, "The sweetest and tenderest thing to be found in all of
Paul's correspondence."
The only
church Paul ever accepted a gift from was this church of Philippi. They supplied him many times, and he writes
in 4:16, "For even when I was in Thessalonica, you sent me aid again and
again when I was in need." William
Barclay, the great New Testament scholar, wrote, "Paul was closer to the
church of Philippi than to any other church." Listen to his loving terms in 4:1, "Therefore, my brothers,
you whom I love and long for, my joy and crown, that is how you should stand
firm in the Lord, dear friends!"
In one verse they are called his brothers, the ones he loves, his joy,
his crown, and his friends. Here are 5
terms of endearment in one verse.
So let's
do a reality check, and face the facts.
You are more likely to be an optimist when you are dealing with people
you love, and who love you, then with people who rub you the wrong way, and
irritate you by their indifference or opposition. The fact that Paul is most optimistic with those he most loves
and enjoys makes it clear that relationship is a key factor in the degree of
your optimism about people. Your
optimism about God and His plan should not be affected. That should be on a high degree of intensity
no matter what. But on the human level
the degree of optimism is determined by the level of Christian love that exists
between Christian people.
One of
the reasons Paul had such a good relationship with this church is because it
was mainly Gentiles, with only a few Jews, and so his enemies who poisoned the
minds of people against him did not have much of a foundation in this
church. There were only a handful of
Jews, for when Paul first came to Philippi there was even a synagogue, but the people
met by the river. Lydia, a Gentile, was
converted, and the church met in her home.
Then the Philippian jailer and his family were converted, and he too was
a Gentile, and so the church had few people that Paul's enemies could confuse.
In chapter
3 Paul still has to warn them about the Jewish legalist who would take them
back to the law, but it is a small part of his letter compared to others. So we see that where Christians are on the
same wavelength as to theological
convictions, there will be greater peace, joy, and optimism. Paul is writing as a Christian friend, and
not as a theologian. The valuable
lesson to see in all of this is that Christians are like anyone else when it
comes to relationships. When they have
good ones there is joy and positive vibes.
If there is conflict and disagreement over theology and values, there
can be a wall that makes friendship difficult if not impossible. That is why you have Christians who are
friends, and Christians who are only acquaintances. Then you have Christians that you will not even bother to get to
know better until heaven. There we will
all be able to love everyone in the body, just as Christ does. Until then, like Paul, we will have better
relationships with some than with others.
God used
the bad things that happened to Paul in Philippi to bring forth good, and so
every memory of even his bad times made him joyful. He was harassed by the demon possessed girl; he was arrested,
beaten, and thrown in prison, but God used all of this to lead the Philippian
jailer and his family to Christ. It was
a bad day in the life of Paul, with a lot of rejection and pain, but in the end
it was one of the best days of his life, for a whole pagan family was now in
the kingdom of God, and a part of the Philippian church. Paul was an optimist about what God could do
with a day where all was going wrong.
He could say amen to the poet who wrote‑
The inner side of every
cloud
Is bright and shining.
I therefore turn my clouds
about,
And always wear them inside
out
To show the lining.
Paul did
not pretend that all the bad stuff was good.
Just because God used all the bad to lead to a good end did not make the
bad good or right, and so even when it was all over, and the Philippian jailer
and his family were baptized, and the officials came to release Paul and Silas
from the jail, Paul protested the injustice of what had been done. He demanded that the magistrates who put
them in prison come and apologize for their unjust decision. Paul did not say that it was okay because
God used it for good. It was still
wrong, and a bad decision. It was an
injustice that needed to be corrected, and not merely forgotten because God
used it for good. This is important to
see, so that we can recognize there is more than one kind of optimist.
Wrong
and evil and injustice are not made good just because God can use them to
achieve good goals. They are still bad,
and those who do them are held accountable.
Evil does not become good no matter what good God can bring out of
it. It is still evil. A superficial optimist makes a major mistake
of thinking that if God uses bad things for good, then the bad things become
good. Wrong! Paul was no superficial optimist that says, all is for the best. Those who think this way deny the reality of
evil and folly in man. If all is for
the best, then there is no evil, and we are compelled to be Christian Science
followers, who say all evil is in the mind.
Paul
was not so superficial. In 2:21 Paul
complains about the self‑centeredness of Christians. Timothy is unique in his loving care for
others, but he writes, "For everyone looks out for his own interest, not
those of Jesus Christ." Paul does
not say, this is for the best, and will, in the long run, be a great
blessing. It is a defect in the body of
Christ, and it is not a good thing.
Paul did not reject the reality of problems and weaknesses in the
Christian life, as if this was the best of all possible worlds. That would be a form of blindness, and not
optimism. He could be pessimistic about
people without losing his optimism in God, and God's ability to win the final
victory even with the obstacles of sinful people.
In 4:2
he pleads with Euodia and Syntyche to settle their dispute peacefully, and asks
the church to help them do so. He does
not say, a good fight will clean the air, and is healthy for the body. Paul recognized that saints are not perfect,
and that they would get into conflict and would need to agree to disagree on
some things. He did not pretend that it
was all for the best, but said that Christians need to focus on their common
bond in Christ. There would be things in
areas of individual differences where they would never agree. Paul was optimistic that Christians could be
one in Christ even though they may disagree on many things.
Why is
it important to see this distinction between the realistic and the superficial
optimist? For one thing, it makes
people feel guilty when they hate evil, if they feel it is contrary to
Christian optimism to do so. Some
Christians delight in making other Christians feel guilty for being pessimistic
about man. This is superficial, for the
Bible is loaded with this kind of pessimism.
"All have sinned and come short of the glory of God." "There is none that does
good." "All our righteousness
is as filthy rags." You could go
on for pages with such negative quotes.
A Christian has every right to be pessimistic about man apart from the
grace of God.
The
false prophets said all is well, and everything is for the best. You are God's people, and God will bless you
no matter how you disregard His laws.
This kind of superficial optimism is what lead to the judgment of God's
people time and time again. It is evil
to be a shallow optimist and seduce people into believing all is right when it
is not. Paul could, as an optimist,
still face the reality of a fallen world where plenty is wrong that he did not
like, and he deals with it even in this most optimistic of his letters. In 2:27 Paul writes of Epaphroditus,
"Indeed he was ill, and almost died.
But God had mercy on him, and not on him only, but also on me, to spare
me sorrow upon sorrow." Paul was
not so gullible as to fall for the "Everything is best,"
philosophy. He says that he would have
cried his heart out had his friend died, for it would have been a tragic loss,
and he would not be comforted by some superficial theory that God needed him
more than he did. It would have broken
his heart because even an incurable optimist recognizes that evil and sorrow
are a real part of life, and you can't whitewash it with a pretense that it is
all for the best. Life is full of
things that are not for the best. That
is why there is a Gospel to give men hope of escape from this fallen world, and
to be in a world where all will be for the best.
Rejoice
in the Lord he repeats over and over, but he also says in 3:2, "Watch out
for the dogs‑those men who do evil..." He does not say rejoice in the world, the flesh, and the devil,
which are the source of endless problems.
The optimist still has his pessimistic side, for the world of evil and
folly is a temporary reality that has to be faced. The saints are fallible; the world has fallen; and the devil is
alive and well. The Christian who
believes all is best in such a world is what we call a superficial optimist,
where he denies the reality of the very battle of good and evil. This is as superficial as the little ditty
that goes‑
The optimist fell ten
stories,
And at each window bar
He shouted to the people,
"I'm alright so far!"
This is
as unrealistic as the man who, without a dime to his name, went into a fancy
restaurant and ordered an oyster dinner with the hope of finding a pearl in an
oyster to pay for the meal. It is as
superficial as the woman who reported her neighbor had been shot in a
fight. "Were the wounds
fatal," her friend asked.
"Only two of them," she said.
"The other three were just flesh wounds." This is the kind of person who will say
everything is for the best. Paul would
not, for his was not a shallow optimism.
His was a deep optimism that says, even in a fallen world where much is
wrong, and far from the best, God is going to achieve His purpose, and I am
delighted to be part of His team, for they will be the ultimate winners.
Paul's
optimism was based on Christ and His victory over all the forces of evil. It was not superficial like that of the
student who was asked, "Did you pass?" He responded, "No, but I was the highest of those who
failed." Paul could say, "I
have failed. I am the least of the
Apostles, and not worthy to be an Apostle, but I can do all things through
Christ who strengthens me." He was
a realistic optimist who could be pessimistic about man, himself, and even the
church, but always rejoicing because he was optimistic about Christ and His
victory.
Optimism
is based on the broader scope. The detail of the moment may be a pain, and a
cloud on you day that rains on your parade. Pessimism is based on the negative
realities of the moment. Optimism is based on the positive realities that will
be forever. In Christ, the positives will last, and all negatives will vanish.
You need to see everything in the light of the long run. Someone said that
maybe all your dreams have not come true, but then neither have all your
nightmares. You have gone through a lot of trials, but you have come through
the storms into the light again, and have enjoyed the day after many a troubled
night. It is the long range look that keeps you smiling when you face temporary
pain. Some humorous poet put it‑
It is easy enough to be
happy
When life is a bright, rosy
wreath,
But the man worth while
Is the man who can smile
When the dentist is filling
his teeth.
Christian optimism is based on the big picture, and is dependent upon
patience. Love is patient, and patience is one of the great Christian virtues,
for only the patient can live on the long run level. The impatient are short
run people, and they are pessimistic, for in the short run you have to focus on
the failure and folly of man, rather than on the faithfulness of God.
Pessimists see only the viciousness of the battle, and not the victory
that makes the battle worth it. A neighbor said to a father who kept bailing
his son out of trouble, "If that were my boy, I would forget him."
The father replied, "If he were your boy I would forget him too, but he is
my boy." Love makes you more patient and longsuffering because love makes
you more optimistic. Take love out of any relationship, and you can count on
pessimism taking over.
Love is
what made Paul so optimistic in relation to the Philippians. Where love abounds
optimism will thrive, and that is why Paul writes in v. 9, "..and this is
my prayer that your love may abound
more and more..." Christians who love are Christians who are fun to be
with, for they are, like Paul, incurable optimists. We cannot be like Paul in
many ways, but we can all be like him in this way. We can all be Christians who
are fun to be with. Ask yourself, am I a Christian who is fun to be with
because I focus on the goals of the true, and the beautiful, and I tend to
rejoice in life even when it is full of problems? Or, am I one of those who is
a gloomy Gus, or cloudy Claudia who tends to rain on everybody's parade?
This
letter of Philippians will change you if you let it, for it is the most joyful
book of the Bible. Chuck Swindoll's book on Philippians is titled Laugh Again.
In it he seeks to get Christians to stop being sour pusses, and start being the
kind of joyful people God wants them to be. We all need to pray that God will
help us learn the essence of this letter and learn to be incurable optimists.
2. JOYFUL SAINTS Based on
Phil. 1:1‑11
Roger
Fredricksen, a well‑known pastor in my hometown of Sioux Falls, South
Dakota, wrote a book titled God Loves The Dandelions. In it he tells of how he and his wife Ruth were at a small cabin
on the lake in Minnesota. They had just
finished reading the book of Philippians with all its powerful statements on
being able to do all things through Christ, and to have the peace of God which
passes understanding. Roger cracked
opened his boiled egg to enjoy his breakfast, and it came out watery and
raw. He was irritated, for he has a
built in prejudice against half‑boiled eggs. He could not, for the life of him, understand why Ruth could not
watch the time when it comes to boiling eggs.
He had
just thanked God for the food, and so he tried to be consistent and not
gripe. He scooped away the uncooked
part, and tried to make the best of it.
But he was peeved, and then he was angered at himself for being so
peeved over a bit of egg. He left the
table in silence, and he went off to write about new life in the church. It was so hypocritical, for here he was all
bent out of shape over an egg. It was
so petty it was pathetic. He got up and
went back to the kitchen where he blurted out, "Ruth, the egg got to
me. I don't understand myself. It's a beautiful glorious day, and I'm hung
up on an egg. Will you forgive
me?" Together they had a good
laugh, and they went on to have a good day.
A saint
is not a person who never gets disturbed over trifles, but one who, when
disturbed, confesses, and seeks for a Christ honoring solution to his or her
weakness. The Christian does not differ
from the world so much in what life brings to them. They differ in what they bring to life. The Christian faces the same trials and temptations, and
frustrations as anyone else, but they are to deal with them with a transformed
mind, that looks for a way of escape from evil, and a way to overcome evil with
good. The saint is not a figure with a
halo, as portrayed in stained glass windows, but just an ordinary human being
who recognizes he or she is chosen by God to be different and how they respond
to life's pressures. Not all saints are
equal, of course, and some do a much better job than others.
The
Philippians, for example, were superior in many ways to other Christians in the
New Testament. Even the bad Christians
are called saints, for all who trust in Jesus as Savior are saints. That is,
they are separated unto God for His purpose.
Anything, or anyone, who is separated unto God's service is called
holy. Pots and pans in the temple were
holy because they were separated unto the service of God. People are holy, not just when they are
morally pure, and without sin, but when they are called to be servants of
God. The saints are servants, and all
servants of God are saints. It is not a
state of perfection that makes a saint.
It is a position. If a person is
in Christ, that is, they are a part of the body of Christ, they are, by their
very position, automatically saints.
They are people separated from the world to be servants in the kingdom
of God.
If you
are born in the U.S. you are an American.
If you
are born in Mexico, you are a Mexican.
If you are born again, you are a saint.
There
are only saints in Christ, and all the world is divided into those who are
saints and those who are not. Christians will often say they are not saints,
and they mean by this that they are far from perfect, but the fact is, if you
are in Christ, you are a saint. You might be a weak saint, or fallen saint, or
a baby saint, but you are a saint. If you are not a saint, you are not a
Christian, for all Christians are saints. A saint is not determined by what
they are, but by where they are. If they are in Christ, that is the bottom
line. The degree of holiness varies tremendously, but all who are in Christ are
equally saints. They may not be equally saintly, but they are all saints. There
is no term for half‑saints, or quarter saints, or any other percentage. A
saint is a saint, just as an American is an American. An American can be one
who loves his country, or one indifferent to his country, and even one who is
hostile to his country, but all are equally Americans. Likewise, all saints are
equally saints, but they may not be equally like Christ at all.
Paul
thought of the Philippian saints as the cream of the crop, and so we can learn
much about being a saint by examining what kind of Christians these Philippians
were. The outstanding characteristic of these people was their joyful spirit.
The idea that a saint is one who is sad and somber has no basis in the New
Testament. The best saints are those who are delighted with life and the chance
to enjoy all that God has made possible. Paul is so full of joy over these
Christians because they add joy to his life and joy to the world. They are fun
people to love and serve because they show their appreciation with a joyful
response.
Paul wanted
to go to heaven, but he also wanted to stay and serve these saints, and he was
convinced God would let him stay and he writes in 1:25‑26, "I know
that I will remain, and I will continue with all of you for your progress and
joy in the faith, so that through my being with you again your joy in Christ
Jesus will overflow on account me."
God left Paul on earth because there was a colony of heaven already here
in the saints of Philippi, and Paul could get a good taste of the essence of
heaven right here by serving and growing with this joyful body of
believers.
The
essence of heaven is joy, and the best small group; the best Sunday School
class, and the best church is one where the saints enjoy one another. This is what makes the Philippian church the
best in the New Testament. Paul urges
them on to perfection, however, so as not to loose what they have, which is a
taste of heaven on earth. He writes in
2:3‑4, "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in
humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests but also
to the interests of others." The
essence of the ideal church is the same as the essence of the ideal marriage,
or any other ideal relationship. It is,
love one another, and give each other the attention and support they need to be
joyful. Where joy reigns, Jesus is
Lord, and you have the very best atmosphere for the growing of saints.
If you
pay no attention to the joy of people in your group, church, or family, you cease to be the servant of Christ in
that context. Where Christ is served
there will be joy, and the saints will be at their best level of sainthood. There is an ancient story about St. Anthony
who lived in the desert alone, and he felt superior to the rest of
Christians. God told him to go to
Jerusalem, and he would find a better saint.
When he got there he was told to look up Cobbler Conrad, and when he did
he found him pounding on a pair of shoes.
Anthony asked, "What do you do that so pleases the Lord?" "I have done very little," he
replied. "I just mend shoes, but I
mend each pair as though they belonged to Jesus Himself. I mend them as I would for Him my
Savior. That is all I do."
St.
Anthony left Conrad the Cobbler, and he went back to his desert tent, and there
with a more humble spirit he prayed, "Now, I see, Lord God. I have set up myself as a saint. But Conrad sees something of Christ in every
man, woman, and child. That is true
sainthood. That is true perfection in
thy work. I shall leave this desert
place where I have isolated myself from human kind, and I shall go down into
the city slums and serve my fellow man.
There shall I be a saint, indeed, worthy of Thy fellowship." The best saints are not those in isolation,
but those, like the Philippians, who serve one another, and add joy to the
lives of those about them.
Are you
a saint who brings joy wherever you go, or one who brings joy whenever you
go? Christians tend toward one or the
other category. Those that others enjoy
having around do so because they add to the joy of being a Christian. Paul could not wait to get back with the
saints of Philippi, for it was pleasant; it was fun, and it was a joy to be
with them. They were saints who knew
how to flavor this fallen world with a taste of heaven's joy. That is why Paul could write, "I thank
God every time I remember you."
Paul had nothing but pleasant memories of being with them. He showers them with compliments, for he is
doing for them what they did for him.
They were such a source of encouragement, and he wants to be that to
them as well. It makes you feel good to
know that you make others feel good, and so Paul tells them forcefully, you
make me feel good.
We all
leave an impression in the minds of others.
Will people remember us as one who added joy and pleasure to their
lives? Will they be grateful to God
when they remember us? Or will they
remember how hard we were to get along with, and how seldom we added to their
joy? Do we have Pauls in our in our
lives who say thanks to God when they remember us? That is what being a saint is all about. It is about being a channel through which
God can pour into this world some of the joy of heaven.
This letter
of Paul teaches us clearly that the essence of Christian joy; the essence of
optimism; the essence of tasting heaven on earth, is one word‑relationships. Listen to Paul again in 1:4‑5, "I
always pray with joy because of your partnership in the Gospel." In 1:25‑26 we read, "I will
continue with you for your joy. Your
joy will overflow on account of me."
In 2:29 they are urged to, "welcome Ephaphroditus in joy." In 4:1 he calls them, "His joy and
crown," and he repeats it, "Rejoice in the Lord." All the joy of this letter revolves around
the relationships of himself and Timothy; he and Ephaphroditus; he and the
Philippians, and them and Ephaphroditus.
A saint is one who stands in a special relationship to God. A joyful saint is one who stands in a special
relationship to the family of God.
Relationships are the foundation for most, if not all, of the values of
life such as, family values; social values; national values, and you name it. In both the secular and sacred realms of
life relationships are the foundation.
It was
the worst weather in the entire world, and yet six men spent 220 days in it in
1989. They made the first unmechanized
trek across Antartica. Will Steger lead
this group which had to brave 2 months of storms with temperatures as low as 43
below zero, and winds up to 90 miles per hour.
With only dog sleds and skies they traveled 3,741 miles. Just 2 days before they finished their
journey 32 year old Keizo Funatsu from Japan, the youngest member of the
expedition, went out to feed the huskies.
Even though it was just a few yards away, a blinding snow storm caused
him to loose his sense of direction. He
knew he was in trouble, and he took immediate measures for survival. Here is what he wrote in his journal.
"Once I was in my snow ditch, blowing snow covered me in
5, 10
seconds....I could breathe through a cavity close to my
body but
the snow was blowing inside my clothes, and I was
wet. I knew my teammates would
be looking for me. I
believed
I would be found; it was just a matter of time. I had
to
believe that....
Very few
people have that kind of experience, lost in the blizzard.
I said
to myself, 'Settle down, try and enjoy this.'
In my snow
ditch I truly
felt Antarctica. With the snow and
quiet covering
me, I
felt like I was in mother's womb. I
could hear my heart
beat‑bomb,
bomb, bomb‑like a small baby's.
My life seemed
very
small compared to nature, to Antarctica."
Two hours
later the others realized the others realized he was missing, and they began a
search. After 4 hours they had to stop
because of darkness and the fierceness of the storm. At 4 in the morning they were up searching again, and at 6 in the
morning Keizo heard them calling his name.
He emerged from his snowy burial, and cried, "I am alive! I am alive!" The most macho men on the planet stood there crying. Will Steger reported, "Finding Keizo
alive was the greatest relief I have ever known."
When men
faced all the obstacles that these men faced together, they developed a
relationship that is deep, and which unites them as a unbreakable team. This is what we see with Paul and Timothy. They are such two different people. Paul is old and Timothy is young, and yet,
they become one of the great pairs of the Bible, like David and Jonathan. Timothy was like a son to Paul, and he calls
him his son in the faith, for he led him to Christ. He was so precious to Paul that out of the 13 letters he wrote in
the New Testament, ten of them include Timothy as his partner. We see it here in the first verse of
Philippians. In this letter Paul exalts
Timothy as one of a kind. In 2:19 he
says that he hopes to send Timothy to them, and then in 2:20 he writes, "I
have no one else like him who takes a genuine interest in your welfare. For everyone looks out for his own
interests, not those of Jesus Christ.
He goes on to say that Timothy has proved himself in his service.
The
point is, everybody needs somebody who is truly a friend, and a loyal
companion. Paul could not have done
what he did without Timothy. That is
true for the Will Steger team, and of every team in history, including
Christian teams. Why does Paul almost always include Timothy, or in a few
cases, other companions in his letters?
A man does not need help writing a letter. A lot of books have two authors who work together, but a letter
can be the work of just one easily. Yet
Paul includes Timothy frequently as if he could not write a letter alone.
This
common characteristic of Paul's letters is itself a valuable lesson. Paul is saying that he is dependant upon
others to accomplish the will of God.
He is no loner, but needs the help of other members of the body to succeed. Paul is always asking for prayer. Why?
It is because he needs help, and is dependant upon the aid of other
Christians as they back him up with prayer and support. The reason Paul has a special place in his
heart for these Philippians is because they were the most helpful in supporting
him. He says that he thanks God every
time he thinks of them, and he prays for them with joy because, as he says in
verse 5, "...You are partnership in the Gospel from the first day till
now." They hit it off from day
one, and were partners who gave encouragement and support to one another. That is why this is such a positive
letter.
Paul has
Timothy, and he has the Philippians, and with this kind of support he is on top
of the world singing songs of joy. Paul
is revealing this basic truth of life, that the essence of happiness is found
in relationships. Paul is in a good
mood, and he is an optimist, and a positive thinker in this letter. God made man in his image, and he can never
feel at his best until he has a positive relationship with another person. God is a trinity of three Persons, and they
are in perfect unity. There
relationship is ideal, with a oneness that has no weakness. They are wholly one, and man is so made that
he can never be content until he has this oneness in some relationship. Jesus provides the foundation for Christians
to develop this oneness. Paul and
Timothy had it, and Paul had it with the Philippians. Every Christian needs to develop this kind of relationship with
someone else in the body of Christ in order to be as joyful as they are capable
of being.
I
suspect a lot of people do not like Paul because they think of him as a cold
theologian who is more interested in ideas than people. This is a false image, for he was a people
person, and he clearly admitted his need for people. It was a basic part of his theology. He scolded the Corinthians for hurting their relationships in the
body by failing to recognize every member is a vital part of the whole. He said, "The eye cannot say to the
hand, I have no need of you; or again the head to the feet I have no need of
you." Every part of the body needs
every other part to be complete, and Paul related to all Christians as vital
members of the body of Christ. He
needed people with all of the gifts.
Carlisle
said, "A great man show his greatness by the way he treats the little
man." Paul wrote one of his New
Testament letters, that of Philemon, to a Christian slave owner. He urged him to take back his runaway slave
Onesimus as a brother in Christ. Paul
went out of his way for the sake of one in the lowest class of his day. Paul valued all people, and he had a deep
and warm relationship to people of every class, race, and sex. He was a relationship person, and he put the
value of people above all other things, for that was the way of Jesus, and
Paul's goal in life was to be pleasing to his Lord.
Paul had
more problems than the average man, and he suffered a great deal, but he was an
optimist, and a happy man because of his good relationships to others. He had plenty of people who hated the ground
he walked on, and they sought to undermine his work, and get him executed, but
Paul was still happy because of the people in his life. He devoted much time to maintaining
relationships. In Rom. 16 we see the
entire chapter is one of greetings to his dear friends, and praise for those
whom he loved in the Lord. Why would
God preserve such a personal list of Paul's relationships unless there was a
valuable lesson for the whole church.
The message of his many close relationships is that every Christian
needs to work at relationships to have the best Christian life.
You
don't serve God alone. You don't bless
the church alone. You don't enjoy life
alone. Life at its best is plural. It has friends, partners, and
companions. That is the key to being
joyful saints. Ellen Kreidman in her
book Light His Fire writes this about relationships: "A relationship, like
a corporation, consists of a combination of personalities but has a life of its
own. Just as a corporation requires
dedication and concentration if it is to grow, so too does a relationship
between two people. Perhaps I didn't
feel like a walk on the beach, but the marriage required a walk on the
beach. I certainly didn't feel like a
weekend alone with my husband, but the marriage required a weekend alone
together."
She
gives other examples, but you get the picture.
It is the very thing we see with Paul and Timothy, and with Paul and the
churches. The issue is not just Paul,
Timothy, or the Philippians. The issue
is the relationship. The relationship
is a value to be preserved, enhanced,
and treasured, for the relationship is a reality of great worth. Seeing this, and practicing it, will make
you a better mate, a better person, a better friend, and a better saint.
Paul was
a joyful saint because of his positive relationship to other saints, and that
is his goal for all saints, for that is God's goal. Jesus died to save us from all sin, and that includes all the
sins that rob us of the joy of tasting heaven on earth
through positive relationships in the body of
Christ. Let us thank Jesus anew for
what He made possible on the cross, and pray for forgiveness for our role in
blocking his joy, and for the wisdom to ever press on to be joyful saints.
3. EDUCATED LOVE Based on
Phil. 1:1‑11
The best
of Christians make their share of mistakes, but John Turner was apparently
trying to get a large portion of his quota of mistakes out of the way all in
one day. John was a conscientious
pastor who got to his church early one Sunday morning, and he discovered that
he had left his sermon notes at home.
He thought it was no problem.
There was plenty of time to correct his first mistake of the day. But when he got home, he discovered his
second mistake. He had left his notes
on the table right where his 18 month old daughter eats breakfast. The notes were sopping wet from a glass she
had turned over. It was no problem he
thought, for he could wipe them dry in time.
The words were blurred somewhat, but still readable.
He
finally left for church as he corrected his second mistake of the day, and all
was still under control. Out of the
house he bounded with all he needed, except for one thing. He left his car keys in the house, and also
the key to the house on the same key chain.
Mistake number three was staring him in the face. He didn't have time for mistake number
3. Church was about to begin and he was
several miles away locked out of his house, and with no keys to the car, and
his family had already gone to church.
Desperation drives one to desperate measures. They had a dog's door on the bottom of their back door that led
to the back yard. It was for the dog to
be able to come and go, especially to go.
Pastor Turner was not so proud that he would not lower himself to getting
into his house by Woofy's door. He shed
his suit coat, and got on his knees and proceeded to squirm into mistake number
4. He was bigger than the dog, and when
he got half way in he was stuck, and could not move either way. There he was half in and half out, and his
congregation was probably already singing, "Stand up, Stand up for
Jesus."
His dog
was deeply impressed with the new game, and was licking his face the whole
time. It seemed like an eternity that
he was stuck there, but he finally was able to twist around and reach the door
knob. He even eventually got to church,
but due to his lateness he had to share the whole embarrassing story of his
comedy of errors. His experience proves
that reality can be funnier than fiction, and that there is always room for
improvement in our lives as Christians.
And not just in the trivialities of where we put our notes and keys, but
in the tremendous areas of life like what do we do with our love?
Is it
possible to ever make mistakes with our love, and follow up life with a poor
use of the highest of all virtues? If
not, why would Paul pray that the love of the Philippians would abound more and
more in knowledge, and depth of insight, so they could discern what is
best. The implication is that love can
lack knowledge, and when it does it can chose what is less than the best. In other words, uneducated love can make
foolish choices.
J.
Vernon McGee in his famous Through The Bible Series tells of when he first
became a pastor of a church in downtown Los Angeles. He did not know that there were people who loved to see new
preachers come into the area, for they tended to be such suckers. One Sunday morning a man came forward in the
service, and he refused to talk to anyone but the pastor. The personal worker told pastor McGee, and
the pastor showed the man the way of salvation. He was so interested that tears came to his eyes. He got on his knees and prayed the sinner's
prayer. Then he told pastor McGee that
he needed money to get his suitcase out of a hotel. They were holding it until he paid for his room. McGee felt obligated to help him out and so
he gave him the money for the hotel. He
felt good about being such a Good Samaritan.
But then, six weeks later, he saw the man's picture in the paper. He had been arrested. The article told of how he had been living
for six months off the preachers of the city.
His comment was, "They are the biggest saps in the
world." McGee knew he was one of
them, and he learned quickly that love has to be discerning, or it can be used
for folly.
McGee focused
on this verse for his own life, and he
wrote, "Paul says to let your love abound more and more, but let it abound
in judgment, let it abound in being able to discern. Over the years when I would drive to my study in Los Angeles, I
use to say to the Lord, "I'm going to meet new people today, and I don't
know them. Some of them I will be able
to help. Others of them will put a
knife in my back. Lord, help me to be
able to distinguish between the two.
Show me which I should help."
Actually this verse rescues a Christian from being naïve and
gullible. His love is to abound in
knowledge and discernment."
Like
most loving people, he had to learn by experience that love alone is not
enough, for love can be uneducated, and when it is it can do stupid
things. Love has to abound in
knowledge. It has to get educated if it
is to make wise choices that lead to the glory and praise of God. Feelings alone can set you up for a
fall. A young boy wanted to go swimming
but his mother said no because it is to cold.
He said, "Can I just go and look at the swimming hole?" She said, okay to that. He came back and his hair was all wet. She said, "Did you swim?" "No, I fell in." "Then why are your clothes dry?" "I felt like I was going to fall in, so
I took them off." His punishment
made him realize that he allowed his feelings to lead him into making a wrong
choice.
Paul's
point here is, if love gets educated and abounds in knowledge, it will be able
to discern what is best. Uneducated
love chooses what is less than the best because it is not able to discern. Uneducated love goes too much by feelings
alone, and this leads to unwise decisions.
I love music, for example, but if I went by my feelings alone and
decided to give my life to music, I may waste my life trying to do what I am
not gifted to do. Wise love seeks for
confirmation of feelings. If other
Christians do not feel the same, then I have to recognize my feelings may not
fit the evidence. If there is no
abounding evidence to support my feelings, they must be seen as love on a very
low level of education, and not mature enough to make major decisions. "It is not the calling of cats to plow,
or horses to cat mice."
Every
Christian needs to do for God what they are gifted to do, and it is growing in
knowledge that helps them discover their gifts. My mother had less than
an 8th grade education. She would be
what many would call a non‑gifted Christian. But at her funeral I was impressed by the service of my
mother. For 46 years she did what she
could. She loved other people's babies
in the nursery at her church. There are
all different levels of love, and all of them are good, but they are not all
the best. Kindergarten love is good,
for it is a loving feeling of caring about people, but it is like the tiny bean
spout, and not the full grown bean ready for harvest. All love has to begin here just as all beans have to start as
mere sprouts. Christian puppy love is
positive, for all love has to start somewhere, but it has to press on and get
an education is what Paul is getting at.
Light is good, but there is candle light, moon light, and sun
light. There is an enormous difference
in the power and value in these different degrees of light, and so it is with
love.
Paul is
not knocking the love of the Philippians.
Kindergarten love is not bad, but it is no place to level off and be
content. A child who does not progress
beyond kindergarten is greatly handicapped, and so is the Christian whose love
does not abound more and more in knowledge.
Why is it that Christians can do every stupid thing man is capable of
doing stupidly? It is because their
love has not abounded more and more in knowledge, and so they choose what is
second best, third, or tenth, or even worse.
If there is no limit to how wise love can be, then there is no limit
either as to its lack of wisdom. If
love does not go the way Paul prays it will, and abound in knowledge, it can
become a drop out, and abound in ignorance or lethargy. This can lead to all the folly Christians
have proven themselves capable of in history.
Christians have supported tyranny, persecution, intolerance, slavery,
and every form of non‑loving oppression you can think of. It was because they had a kindergarten love
that did not abound more and more in knowledge. But to the credit of Christians, it was those Christians who did
what Paul prayed for who did so abound, and who became the key leaders in
history for the victories over oppression. Christians with educated love have
given us a world with rights and freedoms that make us the richest and most
blest of peoples.
Abraham
Lincoln was opposed by many Christians with kindergarten love, but those who
had abounded more and more in knowledge gave him their support, and he came to
appreciate the church as his strongest ally in the fight to end slavery. The same thing happened to Albert Einstein
in Germany. There were so many baby
Christians who supported Hitler that Einstein hated Christians. But then he found out there were also mature
Christians with a degree in discerning love, and he came to treasure the church
as the key ally in fight against Hitler.
He wrote, "I'm forced to confess that what I once despised I now
praise unreservedly."
There
were Christians who loved Hitler; Christians who loved slavery, and there have
been Christians who loved every form of folly in history because their love was
feelings without knowledge. In a
previous message we saw that Paul was an affectionate Apostle, and the ideal
Christian is one who, like Jesus, was full of affection and deep feelings that
can be expressed. But now we see those
feelings have to be guided and controlled by knowledge. So we have in the Bible the wedding of the
heart and the head. Christians are forever trying to separate the two, and when
they do they put asunder what God has united, and they create a monster.
Christians who stress emotion without the mind, and say that the heart
is to lead, produce fanatics. Those who
see this as folly, and reverse the focus so that the head leads without the
heart, produce dead intellectualism which is an equal curse. What God has put together we should not
separate. Just as God made it so that
your body cannot be alive and well if both the heart and head are not
functioning together, so he has made the body of Christ the same way. The heart of love must abound in the
knowledge of the head, or there will be a very inadequate expression of the
love and wisdom of God.
I love
the suffering people of the world. I
have some degree of pity and compassion, but my love is mere kid's stuff of
feelings. But there are Christians such
as the World Relief Organization who have abounded more and more in love with
knowledge, and depth of insight, on how to choose what is the best way to meet
the needs of these people. I give my
money to them because I have not done the research to make a wise choice as to
how to show love. I could go off and
try something based on mere feelings, and give my money to someone who will
spend 10 cents on the dollar to meet the need.
I could give my money to con men all over the place, and be a sucker,
and support evil rather than good. I
would be operating on my feelings of love which is good and noble, but because
it would not be informed love, it could end up being very ineffective in
achieving the goals of love. By
supporting a well‑known, and reliable Christian organization, my love
will be making a wiser choice.
The
point is, my love has to be more than a feeling. It has to be informed by facts and knowledge of what is truly a
wise way of loving. I can love
foolishly or wisely, and the only way to love wisely is to abound in knowledge
more and more. Love cannot just feel
its way to right choices. It has to
study and learn, and get educated as to what is the best way to love. The issue is not, do I feel right about
people and needs, but do I care enough about people to find out what is the
best way to express love. Do I take a
hundred dollars in ones and throw them off the roof of an inner city building,
or do I buy one hundred dollars worth of books on poverty, or do I give it to
the Union Gospel Mission where they can get nearly two hundred dollars worth of
goods and services to needy people.
The first is a heart plan; the second is a head plan, and the third is
the heart and head combined to do what is best for the people you claim to
love.
Paul
made it clear in I Cor. 13 that love is the greatest of all values, and without
it nothing else is of value. But he
does not intend us to conclude that this means that love needs nothing else as
if it alone can be sufficient without all the other things that would be
nothing without it. He says in 13:2,
"If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all
knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I
am nothing." This is not to say
that prophecy, knowledge, and faith, are of no value. It is to say that their value comes from their being linked with
love. But love which has not the gifts
of prophecy, faith, and knowledge, is puppy love, and will not be able to make
mature choices for the glory of God.
Knowledge without love may be nothing, but love with knowledge is more
than something‑it is the best.
The
history of medicine is full of examples.
Doctors have always loved health and hated disease. They love to see people get well, but if
this love is not coupled with knowledge, they can very lovingly kill the people
they seek to help. In 1837 four out of
every ten women died in child birth.
Ignaz Semmelweis, a Hungarian lad at the University of Vienna, the most
advanced center of medicine in the world of that day, was determined to find
the cause for this fever that took so many lives. He gave his life to get the facts, and spent all his time seeking
for an answer. What he learned was that
doctors were spreading the disease by not washing their hands. He was thought to be a fool and a madman,
but he persisted in his crusade to get doctors to wash. It took a generation to change things, but
in 1906 his home town in Hungry erected a statue in his honor. His love had abounded in knowledge more and
more so that doctors could choose what is best.
Their
love and caring was just as real before their knowledge, but because it was
ignorant love it hurt rather than help.
It was knowledgeable love, or educated love, that made the
difference. History is full of such examples,
and so is each of our lives. We cannot
know what is the most loving choice to make in many areas of life without a
head that is willing to get all it can to help our love be informed. Christian
education is simply helping Christian love know what is the best choice. The more you know, the more likely your love
will make the best choice. The bottom
line is, Christians are never done with their education. Christians are to be
students all of their lives, and ever learning so they can be intelligent and
effective lovers of the world, the church, their families, and themselves. Love motivate us to care; knowledge helps us
care wisely.
Why did
Paul have to pray that good Christians like the Philippians would abound in
knowledge? Because there is nothing
automatic about this. You don't pray
for what is inevitable. You don't pray
that sun will rise in the East, or that the river will run to the sea. You pray for what will not happen unless
people choose to let it happen, or make it happen. If Christians say, I am loving enough, and I am content with the
level I've reached, they will plateau right there, and growth is over. If 4th grade love is your bag, and that is
what satisfies your ambition, you will stay right there the rest of your
life. But it is a rejection of the
biblical goal of never ending growth.
We are to love God with all of our mind, and that means love is to grow
in knowledge forever, for there is infinite room for growth.
Jesus
healed a leper, and then told him not to tell any man of his healing, but the
man was so happy, and so convinced that
Jesus was the best thing that ever happened to him that he went out and told
everybody. It seems like a loving thing
to do, and it came from a grateful heart, but it was foolish love, for Mark
1:45 tells us that because of the publicity of this grateful man Jesus could no
longer openly enter the city. His love
was real, but it was self‑centered and ignorant. He hindered the ministry of Jesus, and
deprived others of the very healing that he experienced. The man was not bad. It was just that his love was not
educated. An educated love would have
recognized that Jesus had good reason for His request for silence. Educated love would have obeyed the Master,
and would have been a blessing instead of a hindrance.
Paul
does not teach that love is the greatest thing in the world. He teaches that educated love is the
greatest thing in the world. Love alone
is not enough. It is not enough in
marriage; it is not enough in medicine; it is not enough in Christian service,
and it is not enough anywhere. Men of
God in the Middle Ages loved the people they served, and so when the great
plagues struck they urged people to assemble in the churches to pray. The result was that infection spread with a
greater rapidness. It was uneducated
love, and it did great harm to the people.
Love has to be educated, or it can be harmful, and that is why Paul
prays for the Philippians, and why we need to pray for each other, that we will
be a loving people whose love is abounding more and more in knowledge.
The
reason the love of money is the root of all evil is because it is stupid
love. It is immature love that does not
grow. It is like a small child that loves
a toy, and all of life revolves around that toy. But the child grows up and discovers there are greater things to
love like God and people. The lover of
money does not grow up, but goes on all his or her life locked into infant
love. Any love that loves things more
than persons is stupid love. Educated
love is love that loves according to God's value system. Things are loved according to the measure of
their value. Creation deserves to be
loved, for it is God's gift, but when men love the creation more than the Creator they become fools. They are like one who falls in love with the
pretty jewelry box, and throws the ring away, or one who falls in love with a
letter, and rejects the writer of it.
If I
love my car, that is fine, but if I love it to the point where it is more
important than my mate, child, or even my neighbor, it is stupid love. It is uneducated love that does not go on to
higher learning, but got to the 3rd grade and stopped. Smart love is ever moving on to be loving on
a higher level. The degree to which
your love grows in knowledge is the degree of your Christian maturity. The goal is to get love so smart and well
educated that you can choose the best, and so be pure and blameless. The way to Christlikeness is the way of
educated love. Educated love is love
that loves everything and everyone with a measure of love that it
deserves. That is wise living, for it
puts all of reality into it proper perspective, so that God is loved supremely,
and then mate, family, church, country, and things all fall into their level of
priority where the best gets your best, and the lesser gets the lesser
commitment of your life.
If we
link love and learning we will have life with a capital L, for it will be the
abundant life Jesus came to give us.
Educated love will love according to priorities. If number 47 on the list of loves gets 80%
of your time, that is stupid love. The
purpose of every sermon and Bible study, and every discussion of Christian
values is to educate our love so it can lead us to make the best choices in all
areas of life. In heaven we will all
get our doctor's degree in love, but in
this life the goal is to get as many degrees as possible. We are to be love scholars for life, and
that is why Paul prays that God will motivate us to be such.
Why? Because life is not a
matter of choosing the good or the bad. Christians think that when they can do
that, they can quit learning and growing in knowledge, but this is a major
mistake. Choosing the good is not the
goal of the Christian life, for there is also the better and the best. Having the knowledge to choose the best is
to be our aim, and the only way we can ever get to love on this level is to have
a love that abounds more and more in knowledge and depth of insight. Educated love is "more and more
love." It is not content to just
grow. It abounds in more and more
knowledge, and more and more insight, so it is more and more able to choose the
best, and be more and more pure, and more and more blameless, and thus, more
and more fruitful, and, therefore, more and more productive of glory and praise
to God. Paul prays for the Philippians,
and we need to pray for one another, and for ourselves, that we might be
abounding in educated love.
4. ENVIOUS CHRISTIANS
Based on Phil. 1:12‑18
We
seldom get the whole story on anything.
No doubt, most of us are aware of how the rocks brought back from the
moon were kept in isolation for some time less the contain some organism that
could spread disease for which we have no defense. That made a lot of sense, and made everyone feel more comfortable
about bringing back to earth that which was unearthly. But what I didn't know until I read Isaac
Asimov is that man was thoughtful enough to be concerned about taking earth's
germs to the moon, and elsewhere, as well.
So at enormous expense the space vessels we have launched have
sterilized. If there is life of any
kind out there, man did not want to be responsible for destroying it with his
diseases.
Man,
even in his fallen state, is certainly more noble than Satan, for he did not
hesitate to contaminate our planet with the deadly virus that got him booted
out of heaven. He enticed Adam and Eve to
be envious just as he was. He wanted to
be like God, and even better than God, and this envy cost him the loss of all
godliness rather than its acquisition.
Satan then deceived Adam and Eve by saying they could be like God
knowing good and evil if they ate the forbidden fruit. The envied God having what they did not
have, and so they ate, and every since we have lived in an envy infested world.
It is
the major plague of all time. It
infects more people than small pox ever did in the past, or that aids does in
the present. Yet, you will have a hard
time finding any government spending big bucks to study it. It is terribly destructive to Christian
lives, and the ministry of the church, but you will have a hard time finding
sermons on this serious issue. You can
find sermons on murder, for most Christians don't murder, and there are plenty
of sermons on all of the Ten Commandments because most Christians do not break
these basic laws of life. But when it
comes to envy, you are really meddling, for there is not likely a Christian
anywhere who is not infected with the virus of envy. We do not like to deal with stuff like this, for it is not
comfortable like dealing with the sins of other people. All I have to do when I hear about the sins
of others is to be grateful I am not one of those sinners. It gives you a sense of pride when you can
say with the Pharisee, "I thank God I am not as other men." But envy is not in the same category.
The
first thing we need to understand about envy is that it is a common Christian
sin. It is common in non‑
Christians too, but it does not go away because one becomes a Christian. These people that Paul is referring to here
are not pagans or Jews, but Christian men who preach Christ. There is nothing wrong with their message,
but their motive is sinful. It is
amazing, for Paul says it is possible to do the highest things in life with the
lowest motives. These good Christian
preachers were motivated by envy, rivalry, and selfish ambition. Their goal was not the body of Christ being
built up, but their own reputation being built up. They wanted the fame and glory of Paul, and they were willing to
hurt Paul if that would help them achieve the goal.
In spite
of these terrible motives, Paul rejoices because people can be saved by the
Gospel even if those preaching it are jerks.
The message that faith in Jesus Christ can cleanse and free you from
sin, and make you a child of God, is just as true, and just as effective, no
matter what the source. It can come to
people by the printed word; by radio; or television, and it doesn't make any
difference what the motive is of those who spread it. It is not the messenger, but the message that is the power of God
unto salvation. If an atheist sees a
chance to make a quick buck by selling Bibles, those Bibles will be just as
effective as Bible given by the Gideons.
Paul
says that it makes no difference how people hear the Gospel, for faith comes by
hearing, and the messenger can be awful sinner, but the message will still
save. Paul is not saying that it is
okay that some Christian preachers are motivated by envy, rivalry, and selfish
ambition. These are sins are that
condemned everywhere in the Bible. Paul
is not saying that he enjoyed having Christian brothers stir up trouble for
him, for this would be to confess he was a sadistic person. There is
nothing good about the motives of these men. To think so would be to make hypocrisy equal to honesty. Paul is not rejoicing in them, but in the
Gospel they preach, for that is his first love, and he will not attack, even
these self‑centered jerks, as long as they preach the Gospel.
There
are many things that bother me about preachers. There are so many self‑serving ministers in the world. Many get rich off the Gospel by false
pretenses. People are appalled by the
revelation of a popular youth evangelist who has made millions in his ministry
because of his fantastic testimony of being a cult leader before he came to Christ. His story deeply impressed me along with
millions of others, but it was all concocted out of selfish ambition. It worked to keep the checks coming in, but
it was all a lie.
I don't
have any intention of attacking his evil motives. God will deal with that.
The fact is, he exalted Christ as the Savior, and people were saved by
his dynamic preaching. You will seldom
hear me denounce any popular preacher or evangelist because, even if I question
their methods or motives, if they preach the Gospel, it is cause for
rejoicing. This is the spirit of Paul,
and of Christ who told His disciples who wanted to forbid a certain man to
perform ministry: If he is not against us,
He is for us. It is a shame that
Christians can be so sinful in their motives, but it is wonderful that God can
use even these stained vessels to carry the water of life.
Being a
Christian optimist does not mean being blind to the sin, folly, and pathetic
weaknesses of God's people. It means an
awareness that God gets His will done, and His kingdom expanded, regardless of
the sorry motives of His messengers.
Optimism about God and what He can accomplish does not mean there is no
place for Christian pessimism about people.
Paul was so honest it was shocking as he deals with the negative side of
the Christian life. These were men of
God, yet they were full of envy. The
Greek word Paul used here is phthonos, and it also means jealously. They were jealous of the way God had used
Paul, and envious of the love and fame he had gotten in preaching the Gospel.
Before
we throw too many rocks at these Christian slime balls, we need to examine what
the rest of the New Testament says about this sin in the Christian life. We might just discover that the New Testament
will say to us what Jesus said to the Pharisees who were ready to stone the
woman taken in adultery: " He who
is without sin among you cast the first
stone." I say this because the New Testament makes it so clear this is a
basic Christian weakness, and it is a flaw in Christian personality. It is no minor sin either, but one of the
worse that the New Testament deals with.
In fact, it is the sin that sent Jesus to the cross.
In Matt.
27:18 we read the thought of Pilate when he was trying to release Jesus. It says, "For he knew it was out of
envy that they had handed Jesus over to him." The Jewish leaders were jealous of Jesus. They saw people flock to Him, and He was not
even an ordained man. They hated it
that the people loved Jesus, for they were suppose to be the ones that people
turned to for spiritual guidance. It
makes trained professional people angry when the non‑trained amateurs get
more fame than they do. Lawyers are
screaming mad at a layman who wrote a book telling people how to make out their
own living will.
This sin
of envy is capable of any evil, even to the point of killing the Son of God to
eliminate Him from the competition. We
live in a dangerous world because of the potential of this sin. Paul lists it as with the worst sins of
depravity in Rom. 1:29. In Titus 3:3 he
lists it again as one of the terrible sins of the Christians in their free‑conversion
days. He writes, "At one time we
too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one
another." Paul uses the same word
when he describes these Christian preachers and teachers in I Tim. 6:3‑5
where he concludes, "...who think that godliness is a means to financial
gain."
There is
nothing new under the sun. This is a
major problem in our day as millions of Christians fall for the health and
wealth gospel. They send in millions of
dollars to those preachers who tell them God wants them rich. They do just what the false teachers of
Paul's day were doing by convincing people that the point of being a Christian
is to become financially independent.
Paul goes on in this context of I Tim. 6, and urges Timothy to learn to
be content, and not seek for riches that lead to so many desires that ruin
Christians. Then he says those famous
words in verse 10, "For the love of money is the root of all kinds of
evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced
themselves with many grief's."
The
point is, Christians can get so full of envy of what others have that they will
harm the cause of Christ, become deceitful and dangerous, and even forsake
their faith in the pursuit of keeping up with the Jones. Envy is a curse on all men, but especially
the Christian. We do not have the time
to study James chapter 4, but in that chapter James teaches the same thing as
Paul. He says a major sin of the
Christian life is the envy that makes them love the world and materialism more
than the spiritual values of life. When
they do this, they are submitting to the devil, and resisting God, which is
just the opposite of what should be the Christian commitment.
Can
Christians really be that worldly, and out of God's will? Peter in I Pet. 2:1 confirms Paul and James
by writing to Christians:
"Therefore, rid yourself of all malice and all deceit, hypocrisy,
envy, and slander of every kind."
You don't have to rid yourself of what you can't have, and so it is
established beyond a doubt that Christians can be loaded with envy that makes
them a danger to the body and to themselves.
It is a powerful feeling that can make them behave like the devil
himself. We think lust is powerful, and
it is, but here is a more hidden sin that is just as powerful, if not more so,
and it is scary what it can do to the Christian. Lust may slay its thousands, but envy slays its tens of
thousands.
In the
Old Testament envy turned the sons of Jacob into brutal brothers who were
willing to kill Joseph to get him out of the way. God used their envy for good, just as He used that of Pharisees
who killed Jesus, and that of the preachers who envied Paul. God can bring good out of evil, but those
who do the evil are just as guilty, and just as accountable. God's using of evil for good does not excuse
the evil. Envy in the Christian life is
pure evil and not good, even if Christians with it can still share the
Gospel. Those who are poor Christians
can still do a lot of good, but their badness is still bad, and they will
suffer loss in both time and eternity.
If you
start turning green with envy you are getting right for judgment. Psychiatrist Willard Gaylin describes envy
as a mental illness. It is the feeling
that anyone else's achievements or happiness diminish mine, and, therefore, it
is a desire to bring others down and spoil their dreams because it makes me
seem better. When you hear a Christian
put others down, you can diagnose their problem as envy. That is what Christian brothers were doing
to Paul. They had the common perception
of the envious which says, there is not enough love to go around, and so, if
somebody else is getting it, I am losing it.
Envious
people resent anyone who seems to have more than their share of life's
blessings. They are easy to find, for
there is always someone richer, more successful, prettier, or more
handsome. No amount of good fortune can
make envy go away because you are never ahead of everybody. Satan was, but he still had God to envy, and
because he could not be number one he lost his status in heaven and eternal
happiness. Envy is the entry way to
hell, and Christians can live that close to the devil's sphere of influence. Experts say that it is a hard emotion to
unlearn, for it becomes a habit because one gets pleasure out of tearing others
down.
The
Christians tearing Paul down were, no doubt, feeling completely justified, for
Paul was in prison and they were not.
Who is the most blessed of God? Is it
those of us who are free, or Paul who is a jail‑bird, and bringing
disgrace on the cause of Christ? They
would have facts like this to point to in order to justify their mean spirited
competition. The envious Christian lives
in a self‑centered world where the I is lord, and not Jesus. The result is, he or she is not a team
player. It is not what is good for the
kingdom that matters to them, but what is good for me only. If someone is getting too much love and
praise, that is not good for me, and so I must find some dirt about that person
to put a stop to their pleasure.
Most
gossip is a tool of envy, for it is a means to lower others so we can be
exalted. It is very hard to avoid this
sort of thing, for even this sermon is an illustration of it. By putting down these Christian brothers
were envious of Paul, we can all feel better, for by comparison with them we
are paragons of virtue. Finding
terrible Christians to compare yourself with is a good way to feel good with
little cost. These guys are so bad that
being better than them is a snap. This
can lead to pride and self‑deception that makes us feel mature when we
are an inch taller than these pigmy Christians.
Envy is
so common and so dangerous that it has always been listed next to pride in the
7 deadly sins. Being aware of it is a
key factor in controlling it. Every
relationship in life where you feel inferior to another person is a potential
temptation to become envious. We are
tempted to envy anyone who is superior in any way. Envy is makes people delight in the fall of the great. Where big name people blow it, and fall from
their height of fame, it gives us pleasure because we had envy in our hearts,
and envy glories in the fall of the famous.
We feel bad when great Christians lose their fame and fortune by
sinning, but on the other hand, we also
feel satisfaction, for what right did they have to be so honored and
happy? They are no better than we are,
we say, and that is envy at work.
One of
the burdens of greatness is the host of people who watch for your
downfall. Psa. 106:16 says, "They
envied Moses also in the camp."
Every major leader in the Bible was envied, and there were those just
hoping they would fall.
Men are a lot like lobsters. They say if you have a bucket full of them
none can ever get out, because if one starts to climb up the others will pull
it down. Men love to pull each other
down lest someone climb higher than they are.
That is envy at work. If you
aspire to be a star in any field of life, be prepared to be both loved and
hated, for envy will be inevitable in the hearts of many, including those who
love you.
Envy
does not have a positive side effect.
When criminals do not treat each other fairly it is a blessing, for envy
usually trips them up. Police count on
successful robbers making their friends and neighbors envious of their
prosperity, for this brings them forth with information. In a one hundred thousand dollar swindle the
man who got only two thousand squealed on the others who took ninety eight
thousand. Envy is the policeman's
friend and that is true until one of his fellow officers gets to be captain,
and then it is the same old enemy of peace of mind.
In many
cases we can sympathize with the victims of envy. Rachel wanted a child so bad, and her sister Leah could have them
easy. Gen. 30:1 says that Rachel envied
her sister. It is hard to condemn her
for her envy, for her desire to have a child was valid. It is not as if she wanted a bigger tent, or
more jewelry. She just wanted to have a
baby. So even in areas of legitimate
desire envy can get into our hearts and make us have wrong attitudes towards
people that we care about.
The Emperor
Tiberius Caesar exiled and architect because of the beauty of the porch he
designed, and he killed a poet for the writing of a superb tragedy. The superior qualities of these men's works
made him so envious that he hurt them, because he could not produce such
works. History is full of such abuse of
power. If you can do something better
than another, you will likely produce envy.
Mothers have killed their daughters‑in law because they made the
sons love them more than mom. Such is
the power of envy. There is no sin envy
will not commit to express its hatred of superiority. The Emperor Caligula killed his own brother because he was more
handsome than himself.
The
Queen could not tolerate it when the mirror on the wall said Snow White was the
fairest of them all. In a fit of fury
she devised a plan to rid the world of this superior competition. Envy wants to deprive others of what they
have. The willow asked the thorn,
"Why are you envious of the clothes of those who passed by us? What good are they to you?" The thorn replied, "None whatever, I
have no desire to wear them. I only
wish to tare them." If the envious
cannot read, he wishes all books to be burned.
Envy hates others enjoying what he cannot. Envy rejoices when others weep, and weeps when other
rejoice.
Some
sins get less offensive in time, and their definition varies with the culture,
but envy has the unenviable position of being consistently despised from Plato
to the present. Horace wrote in the
first century, "Sicilian Tyrants never invented a greater torment than
envy." Envy robs people of what
they have by making them sad for what they have not. It is Satan's best foot in the door scheme to get us miserable,
for all of us have the potential for falling into this sin. In the 18th century Richard Sheridan
observed, "There is not a passion so strongly rooted in the human heart as
envy."
The
paradox is that it is good that provokes this evil. Good things happening to others is what makes people
envious. If Paul was just a poor or
mediocre evangelist, who was basically ineffective in touching people's lives,
he would have been ignored, but because he was so effective he made other
Christian evangelists envious. His
success was their basis for failure. So
we see that the very essence of sin is a hatred of others for having what we
don't have. Satan fell because he
wanted to be better than God. He
brought Adam and Eve to their fall by making them want what God had
forbidden. He made them envious to have
that one thing they did not have, even though they had everything else in the
world. Every being with a mind and a
will can be brought down by the power of envy.
Sin is
not a lust for what is bad, but a lust for what you don't have that somebody
else does. Envy says, he has a better
wife than I do, and this leaves the door open for adultery. Envy says, he has a better car than I do,
and this leaves the door open for stealing.
Envy says, he has a better life than I do, and this leaves the door open
for murder. Envy plays a role in almost
all sin. Man just does not like it that
others have what he does not, and so every form of evil is committed to get it,
or at least rob the others of it. Man's
inhumanity to man is due to envy. Almost
every Christian sin can be linked to envy.
Envy enables man to do on the negative side what God does on the
positive. God can bring good out of
evil, but man can bring evil out of good.
Every
good thing that happens in this life can, by the power of envy, be turned into
an evil force that hurts the body of Christ.
The history of Christian evil and folly can be traced to this awful
emotion of envy. How do we conquer this
green eyed monster that can take over our emotional system, and damage our role
in the body of Christ? As with every
sin, you first must become aware of it.
Face honestly that you too are in some way infected. Confess it, and tell the Lord you know it is
there, and you hate feeling it. Then
act your way out of this destructive feeling.
That is Paul's advise in Phil. 2:3‑4, where he says, "Let
nothing be done through strife or vain glory; but in lowliness of mind let each
esteem others better then themselves.
Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things
of others."
Then
Paul describes what Jesus did in giving up equality with the Father to become a
man and lay down His life for us. The
opposite of envy is humility, which is the ability not to grasp at what others
have, but to share what you have with others.
This was the spirit of Paul, and he had the spirit of Christ. May God help us to have that same spirit,
and escape the snare of the devil that can make us envious Christians.
5. GOOD OUT OF EVIL Based on Phil. 1:12‑26
Luther
Burbank, the world famous scientist, worked for years to try and develop a
black‑petaled lily. He had
several thousand experimental lily plants in his laboratory. A sudden cloudburst let loose a flood of
rain that they were all washed away.
William Stidger tells of sympathizing with him over what had happened,
and Burbank said to him , "When
anything like this happens I always remember a little couplet my mother use to
quote:
From the day you are born
Till you ride in a hearse,
There's nothing that happens
Which couldn't be worse.
We have
all sought to comfort ourselves at some point in life by recognizing this
reality‑it could be worse. It is
almost always true, but still it is a negative comfort. Your life can be a mess, but others are even
worse. If this is the best you got,
then it has to be what you hang on to, but there is a better and more positive
way to deal with the negatives of life, and that is to wait and see if what you
thought was bad turns out to be good, and instead of being the worst, it may in
reality be the best thing that could have happened.
That is
what Paul is writing about to the Philippians.
They are worried about Paul.
They heard he was thrown in prison in Rome, and they have naturally
concluded that his being arrested was not a good thing. They assumed that his ministry, which they
supported, was now on hold, and Paul would be of no value in advancing the
Gospel now. Paul says not to worry, for
your gifts are not money down a
hole. His being arrested turns
out to actually help the advance of the Gospel, and give him a better ministry
than the one he had planned.
The key
to being an optimist is having the patience to wait and see what God will do
with your negative experience. We so
often jump to the conclusion that bad stuff is just that, and that alone. Sickness, trials, shipwrecks, stoning, and
prison do not sound like prizes for which you would sell many lottery
tickets. Nobody wants this sort of stuff
in their life if they can avoid it.
What Paul learned by his experience is that the bad stuff of life can be
a way for God to use your life in a way that good things could not be used. Paul's being a prisoner led to his having a
ministry to the palace guard of Nero, and some of these soldiers came to
Christ, which never would have happened had he not become a prisoner. He never
would have crossed their path had he not been arrested.
The
fruit of Paul's ministry in prison was quite extensive, and he writes in 4:22,
"All the saints send you greetings, especially those who belong to
Caesar's household." Paul had
Christian friends in the highest places, even the house of the Emperor. There is no reason to believe this ever
could have happened if Paul had not been treated like a criminal. This is one of the answers to the question‑why
do bad things happen to good people? It
is because bad things are often the only way to get us in touch with the right
people, and to make us willing to go the way God wants us to go. In other
words, bad things are tools God uses to get the job done in our lives. The point is not to rejoice in bad things,
but to rejoice in the Lord who can use bad things for good goals we never would
have achieved without the bad things.
Colonel
Bringle of the Salvation Army became a very popular author. He came out of Harvard with honors, and
began his ministry on a street corner in Boston. A drunken hooligan threw a brick at him and hit him in the
head. He received a concussion that put
him in the hospital for months. During
his convalescence he wrote a book called Help To Holiness. He added four volumes, and these devotional
aids sold in large numbers around the world.
He said, "My brethren, if there had never been a brick, there never
would have been a book." His bad
experience opened up doors he never would have entered had they not compelled
him to do so. Don't be so quick to
label bad things as a curse. Wait to
see if it might be a blessing. Even
pray to that end.
Grace Crowell wrote a poem that says it all.
Yet as I live them, strange I did not know
Which hours were destined thus to live and shine,
And which among the countless ones would grow
To be, peculiarly, forever mine.
If I but wait, perhaps, this hour will be
Like silver in the sun, some day, to me!
Paul
never dreamed that his days in prison would be days God would use him to let
his light shine through all of history because of the epistles he would write
there. We should pray, "Lord this is a bad day I am having, what good can
you help me make of it for your glory?"
F. W.
Boreham, the great Australian preacher and author, tells of his pastor friend
who was asked in Seminary to preach at a certain church one weekend when the
pastor became ill. He had other plans with 2 of his best friends, and he did
not want to go. He suggested other names and begged to be excused, but the
Professor refused to let him off the hook. It was with deep anger that he
submitted, and he went to the church in a negative mood, wanting to curse them
rather than bless them. But all of his negative feelings were sheer waste, for
he met the love of his life there, and his whole future was changed. Had he
just waited to see what the end result would be, he could have saved himself a
lot of grief. On of the most common phrases of the Bible is wait on the Lord,
and the reason is, we need to learn to wait and see what God in his providence
is going to do before we label bad things as a curse.
Bad things
often turn out like Paul's being thrown in prison. They are stepping stones to
fruitful blessings that could not be foreseen. God loves to work in all things,
even bad things, for good. It is God's specialty, and wise is the Christian who
has a wait and see attitude toward bad things. Because Paul had this attitude,
he did not have to back off earlier testimony. Had he jumped the gun and
written saying this is the worst thing to ever happen to me, and now my
ministry is ruined, he would have been embarrassed to have to later say it was
a great blessing. He waited to see what God would bring to pass. Jowett wrote,
"The cloud, which appeared so ominous, brought a gracious shower; the
restriction became the mother of a larger liberty." Prison bars and progress
sound incompatible, but Paul just waited and sure enough, he saw his arrest
lead to advance. It was a promotion to a higher ministry.
Why is
it so important for Christians to grasp this reality that God can use evil for
good? Because most of the unbelief in this world is base on this very issue.
Most atheists are so because they say a good God cannot exist and permit all
the terrible evil and suffering there is in this world. Many people do not
believe in God because they feel they are better than God, for they would not
permit the evil that exists if they had the power of God. So who needs a God
who is less noble and compassionate than they are themselves? This would be a
fairly powerful argument if the Bible did not reveal that God permits evil for
a higher good. He permitted evil men to kill His Son for the sake of redeeming
lost men. He permits men to become lost, because only those who are lost and
then found again can be truly righteous and loyal to God forever. Satan was made perfect by God, but he fell because of
pride. That will never happen to those redeemed by the Son of God. They will be
eternally loyal, for they know they are what they are by the grace of God, and
not by their own wisdom, power, or goodness. If God is going to have an eternal
kingdom with assurance their will never be another rebellion, he had to permit
a world with evil and free choice. This terrible fallen world is essential to
the perfect world to come. God will bring good out of all its evil.
What
good is evil? It is the opportunity to be a child of God. Paul says do not be
overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Use evil to reveal your good.
Let your light shine by showing the contrast of the good to the evil.
Where there is hate show love.
Where there is greed show generosity.
Where there is bitterness show forgiveness.
Where there is gloom show joy.
Where there is anxiety show peace.
Where there is violence show gentleness.
The
point is, if there was no evil their would be no way to identify the good.
The goal of history for the Christian
is to bring good out of evil, so that evil does not win the war. Whenever you
stop with evil, you let it win. The Christian is to overcome evil with good,
and that means to go over, around, or through it, and if you can't avoid it no
matter what, then seek to use it for some good and outwit it. The providence of
God is God working in history to make bad events and circumstances lead to good
consequences. Paul's imprisonment was bad for it was unjust and unfair, and
caused by hate. God used their evil scheme to get the Gospel into the very
household of Caesar. This was the beginning of Christianity becoming the
official faith of the Roman Empire.
We often
forget the idea of no pain, no gain philosophy, and we resist making anything
bad for our children to endure, even when we should know that helps them to
become stronger. Cheryl Forbes, a Christian journalist who worked for Zondervan
Publishing House, wrote a book called Backdoor Blessings. Her first job was
terrible. The boss was an older women who made her rewrite almost everything
she submitted for publication. For a year she resented this snooty miss know‑it‑all.
But slowly it dawned on her that she had become a good writer, and she owed it
all to this boss she did not like. Had the boss been a good buddy, and let her
get by with less than her best, she never would have attained the level of
expertise she had reached. The one she thought was her enemy was really her
secret friend.
In Acts
9:16 God said of Paul, "I will show him how much he must suffer for my
name." Paul was chosen for a tough
life, but out of all the evil he had to suffer, the world is still, an will
forever, reaping the good fruit of his life.
His thorn in the flesh was a pain he had to endure lest his pride caused
him to lose his favored status with God. It is a principle of life that if
someone you love will be a better person by what they suffer, then love will
permit that suffering for the sake of that goal. If your child will be
more loving as a person by being discipline, then in love you must inflect pain
for the sake of this higher goal. If
its a good enough principle for God, it is a good enough principle for us to
practice in all loving relationships.
I had to
hurt Lavonne over and over again this past week. I rubbed her damaged muscle to fight the inflammation. It was painful, but I did it willingly, for
I knew it was the only way to get her back to health. Pain was the necessary path to pleasure. I hurt her on purpose for the sake of a
positive goal. That was why Paul was in
prison, and that is why a lot of negative things happen in life to all of
us. The path of pain can lead to
pleasure for those who wait to see where the path will lead.
Dr.
Reuben Youngdahl, of Mt. Olivet Lutheran Church in Minneapolis, tells of his
experience on a world tour. He was
enjoying the white sands of the Indian Ocean at Durham, South Africa. He gave no thought to sunburn until it was
too late, and he looked like a lobster.
He was so sick in the night he considered going to the hospital. He had to spend the rest of his time there
sitting in the shade watching others have fun. The day of his great suffering
was the day the blue‑battle fish infested the shore waters, and with their stingers sent over 1000
swimmers to the hospital. 150 were
poisoned serious enough to be hospitalized.
Several almost died. He could
have been one, and so he realized that
his misfortune was also his good fortune.
His pain saved him from worse pain, or even death.
President Theodore Roosevelt lived before bifocals were invented. The result was he had to carry two pairs of
glasses with him. One was for near
vision, and the other for far vision.
In his last campaign he was shot when he was in Milwaukee. The surgeon who examined his wound handed
him his steel spectacle case and said that the bullet hit this case, and it was
deflected from your heart, and saved your life. The president took the case with its shattered spectacle and
said, I've always considered the burden and handicap of having to carry these
two pairs of glasses, especially these heavy ones that were in this case, as a
very sore one, and here at last they have been the means of saving my
life." It was a long wait to see
any good from that negative reality, but in the long run it turned out that his
burden was a blessing.
Arturo
Toscanini, the famous orchestra conductor, hated being handicapped with his near sightedness. At nineteen he was playing the cello in an
orchestra, but he could not see the music on the stand, so he had to work
harder than anyone, and memorize the music.
One day the orchestra leader became ill, and suddenly Toscanini was the
only member of the orchestra who knew the score. So he conducted it without the score, and got great responses
from the audience. Had he not been near
sighted he never would have been ready for this opportunity that lead him to
become one of the great conductors of all time. The bad thing in his life became the best thing in his life for
his career.
Charles
Spurgeon tells the true story of how lies can be used to the glory of God. An evangelist was to preach in a small
Italian town back when there was a great deal of hostility between Catholics
and Protestants. The local priest told
his people that this man who was coming was a worshipers of the devil. This scared many, and so they stayed away,
but one depraved soul was interested in devil worship, so he went to hear the
man. Nothing could have gotten him
there but this lie. But when he came
and heard of Jesus, the devil's conqueror, he became a convert to Jesus rather
than the devil he was going to seek.
God used a lie to bring this man to Jesus.
The point
is not, that liars are good, or handicaps, or other bad things are of
value. The whole negative aspect of a
fallen world is just that‑negative.
It is bad, and not good, for it would all be taken into the eternal
kingdom if it was good. But the fact
is, it is all eliminated. We are
calling black white, or evil good, for all bad things are bad. The point is,
God is not limited to using good things for His purpose. He can use bad things as well, and it is to
be one of the challenges of life to work with God to bring good out of evil.
What
happened at Standard Oil is a good illustration in the world of industry. After oil is refined, a greasy black liquid
is a waste product. They use to empty
it at the river, but laws were passed to stop that. Then they dug a pit to get rid of it, but that failed. They tried to burn it, but that was almost a
disaster. Finally, in desperation, they
called in chemists from all over the country, and by accident they stumbled on
to a way to make this massive nuisance into paraffin. This became one of the most profitable products of the
refineries. This story is repeated in
the history of dozens of waste products.
The
point being, what is true for things is true also for events. Negatives, like
the wastes of life and the bad events, can, by the grace of God be transformed
into valuable products and good experiences. So don't waste anything in life,
for what you feel is bad and worthless can become your most treasured event. Charles
Kettering was cranking his car in the good old days, and it kicked on him and
broke his arm. He thought, this is terrible. There must be an easier way to
start a car. This painful event motivated him to go and invent the self‑starter
that has saved millions of others from suffering. One man's pain led to the
greater pleasure of the masses.
That
good can come out of evil does not mean there is nothing difficult to bear in
the evil. Paul lost his freedom and had to be confined in chains and pay a
heavy price for the good that came of it. It was not free but costly to be used
of God this way. It would be just as hard, or even harder, however, if no good
ever came of it. The hard part is made easier in knowing good will be the end
result. Paul did eventually get executed, but he had all the joy of seeing the
good that was coming because of his suffering. This is not always the case. The
nuclear crisis at the reactor in Chernobyl is a good example. Many people died
in that crisis, but it forced doctors to learn rapidly about the removal,
treatment and transplant of bone marrow. They had to act quickly, and they
learned by trial and error, but the end result was they learned what will
benefit all mankind. One of the doctors made this comment.
"We were like Star
Trek. We were going
where mankind had never gone
before,
but we were being dragged
there reluctantly.
Now, as a result, we have a
whole new way to
deal with an even cure
cancer." The same
chaotic energy that killed
so many at
Chernobyl may now result in a procedure
of donor and autologous bone
marrow
transplants that will save
thousands of lives.
This new order was born of
loss and chaos.
So often
in history terrible things for the few can be tremendous benefits for the many.
We are among the millions who are benefiting from Paul's imprisonment. Because of it,we have all the wisdom of this
letter he wrote in prison. Paul
suffered for your pleasure
and mine.
God used the bad things Paul had to endure to give good things to us. It is one of the ways of God in history to
show that He is in control even though man, by his sin and folly, is
perpetually doing evil and harmfully things.
God is in the business of reversing the effects of man's folly.
What we
need to learn from all of this is not
to jump to conclusions, and write off bad experiences as total loss. Ask God to help you use the bad as a stepping stone to some good. If God loves to bring good out of evil, then
don't waste evil, and let it be evil only, but seek for ways it can lead to
good. A most dramatic and radical
illustration of this comes from the diary of Ann Traylor, a servant girl coming
to America from England. She was raped
on board the ship. It was so
devastating she wanted to die, but fortunately for her a Quaker lady named
Henrietta Best was there, and she had been raped decades before by French
soldiers. Now let's make this clear‑this
was a totally evil experience‑it was pure evil. But the point is, it was not wasted, but used. Henrietta came to Ann and used her evil
experience to bring comfort to her. Ann
wrote in her diary‑
"She could say to me, "Hush, it happened
to me,
too."
And those words saved my life and my
reason. What
resurrected me, were her love
and her understanding, which, clearly, were
the fruit of her own suffering; she could identify
with me without pious pretense. When she
consoled me and took me in her arms, I ex‑
perienced the presence of God."
The evil
of the past was still evil, and those who did it will be judged, but good was
brought out of the evil by a wise use of it.
Had Paul laid around his cell swearing at the guards, his evil
experience would not have been used for good.
He had to be an impressive witness to his joy in Christ in spite of his
suffering, or he would have seen no fruit from his evil experience. Bad things don't lead to good by their
nature. They only root like fruit and
get worse. They can only lead to good
as we learn to use them wisely.
The
point here is not to say let's all get arrested and see what good can come of
it. We are to avoid all evil, and try
to prevent every bad thing in life. But
when we cannot, and we have to suffer in this fallen world, let's not waste it,
and jump to the conclusion that it is of no value. Let's work with God, and seek to overcome evil with good, and rob
the devil of his pleasure. Robert
Schuller in his popular book, Life's Not Fair But God Is Good, deals with this
issue, and gives many marvelous illustrations. One is of Serena Young, a Los Angeles Orthopedic Surgeon. As a two year girl in Taiwan, this Chinese
toddler contracted polio, and lost the use of her legs. She was in and out of the hospital until she
was 21, but never regained the use of her legs.
She was a bitter young woman. She was angry at God for allowing this to
happen to her. She started to search in
high school for some way to make sense of this, which seems so senseless, and
this is what she discovered; Rom. 8:28, "And we know that in all things
God works for the good of those who love Him, who have called according to His
purpose."She wanted her handicap to be used for good, and so she began to
pray that God would use her tragedy for something good. She stopped her grieving and accepted her
disability. She decided she wanted to
be an orthopedic surgeon. She was told
that it was crazy, but she felt it was God's calling, and though the training
was so hard she wanted to quit at times.
she
persevered, and now has a very fulfilling career helping people deal with their
handicaps. The Los Angeles Times had a
picture of her propped up on crutches leaning over an operating table giving
help and hope to others, who like her, had been dealt a bad hand. She was not wasting her bad experience, but
was using it for good, and for the glory of God, whom she praises for helping
her see bad things can be used for His purposes. May God help us all learn this lesson, and strive by God's grace
to bring good out of evil.
6. FANATIC FOR JESUS Based on Phil. 1:18‑26
In
Tiger Of The Snows Tenzig Norgay is a
fanatic for mountain climbing. He and a
British companion were going to climb Mt. Everest. His wife did not share his enthusiasm, and she felt he was
obsessed. "You are a dare
devil," she said, "And you care nothing about what your death would
do to me or the children." He
responded, "Of course I care...but this is my work‑my
life." She said, "But you are
crazy. You will kill yourself on this
mountain. You will die." "All right," he said, "I will
die!" For to him, to live was to climb Mt. Everest. His life revolved around that mountain, and
it was better to die than not to climb it.
This is
the kind of fanaticism that gives us our adventurers and heroes. You have to be something of a fanatic to be
spectacular at anything. In sports, in
music, in art, in education of all kinds, and in business, the best are people
who are obsessed with their field of expertise. Show me the half‑hearted heroes; show me the goof‑off
gold metal holders; show me the lackadaisical super successes in any realm of
human endeavor, and I'll change my tune.
But until then I'll face this reality‑fanatics are the
winners.
The
explorers, trailblazers, pioneers, and prophets of history have always been
called fanatics. But before we leap on
this fanatical band wagon, we need to see the other side. Fanaticism is also the curse of history as
well as the source of great blessings.
Hitler, Mussolini, and Stalin were also fanatics, as were most of the
tyrants of history. So we see that
fanaticism works for evil as well as for good.
So the value of fanaticism is determined by the cause. If you are
fanatical for an evil cause, you will be successfully evil. If you are fanatical for a superficial
cause, you will be successfully superficial.
If you are fanatical for a good cause, you will be successfully good.
This
makes Paul the supreme fanatic, for in Phil. 1:21 he sums up his life in this
simple statement, "For to me‑to live is Christ and to die is
gain." This is the ultimate
fanaticism, for it is an all out commitment to the highest cause. Paul's point is that when your life is devoted
to the highest you can't lose, for even if you die it is not loss, but gain.
Fanaticism for Christ is the only perfect fanaticism, for it is the only
fanaticism that is a no lose situation.
History
is filled with religious fanatics who did not please God, but brought His wrath
down on them. Jesus blasted the Pharisees
for being religious fanatics in Matt. 23.
Listen to just one of the 7 woes in that chapter. In verse 15 Jesus said, "Woe to you,
teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You travel over land and sea to win a single convert, and when he
becomes one, you make him twice as much a son of hell as you are." Religious fanatics are the worst, and they
make earth a part of hell. Paul was one
of these Pharisee fanatics. He
persecuted Jews who loved Jesus. He
imprisoned them and killed them in his zeal for his religious convictions. For him to live was the law. This led him to be a cruel and violent
man. This is a test of the valued or
vicious fanatic. The vicious fanatic
will bring horror to others, but the valued fanatic will bring healing and help
to others. Paul hurt people by his pre‑Christian
fanaticism, but when he came to Christ, he became a fanatic who brought life
and health everywhere he went.
Paul
meant by this statement, "For me to live is Christ," that his life would
be an extension of the life of Christ.
He will use me as an instrument to keep doing in this world what He did
when He walked this earth in the flesh.
He will give life and health, and be merciful in aiding all who cross
His path. For me to live is Christ
means my body is His body, subject to His Spirit, and doing what He would do in
the same situation. That is the
beautiful fanaticism that God wants to see in each of our lives. This is radically different from being a
religious fanatic, and one who is obnoxious because you are obsessed with
trying to force everybody to buy into your agenda. Even your Christian friends do not like this kind of offensive
fanaticism. It is one part of the body
trying to get all the other parts to conform to it. This is offensive because it is counter to God's will which is
for the body to be diverse with many gifts.
And eye that wants all members to be eyes is trying to play God, and
trying to create all Christians in his image.
History
is full of Christians falling for this trick of the devil. The Catholic church for centuries thought
that salvation was impossible without submission to the Pope. Finally, their theologians came to admit, it
was possible for Protestants to be saved.
But some fanatics like Leonard Feeney, a Catholic scholar and leader in
the 1940's and 50's refuse to except the change. He went back to the 1492 doctrine that nobody outside the
Catholic church could have eternal life.
He was dismissed from his Jesuite order, and no longer permitted to
teach at Boston College. Did he let
this stop him? Not at all. He held a rally at Notre Dame denouncing the
Protestants they had on their football team.
He was offensive to everybody; even the church he sought to exalt. He had his convictions, and he stood fast
regardless of the cost to himself. This
is usually a noble virtue to be admired, but in a fanatic it can be a
curse.
Religious fanatics have done every vile and vicious thing men are
capable of doing, and all in the name of standing for their convictions. They forget the crucial teaching of Paul
that even if they give up everything, and lay down their life, if they have not
love, they are nothing, and they gain nothing.
A fanatic, even if he is right, is a fool if he does not have a
fanatical love to go along with his convictions. You can be 100% right, and biblical in your convictions, and
still be 100% out of the will of God, if your dominant motive is not love. Christians mistakenly think that being right
is all that matters, but they are wrong.
People often reject the truth of God because those promoting it are
unloving people. Christian fanatics
often forget love because it slows you down.
Love has to move with caution, patience, and tolerance, and that rubs a
fanatic the wrong way. So they put love
on the back burner, and fight evil with evil.
They think the short cut is justified because their cause is good.
Such
misguided fanatics may be totally sincere, but they are wrong, for whatever is
not Christlike is wrong for the Christian.
A fanatic that is not loving is not a Christian fanatic, even if they
are Christians. Their fanaticism is
evil, even if they are good Christian people.
A Christian who is a fanatic is only a Christian fanatic if his
fanaticism is Christlike, as was the case with Paul. Ask Paul what the meaning of life is, and he will say,
"Christ is the meaning of my life."
Life means Christ to me. I live
to serve Him.
I eat to have energy to do His will.I sleep to feel
good to be a better tool for Him to use.I do all that I do in life as a means
to be more effective for Christ.
That is
fanaticism, but it is beautiful, for Paul is ready to do anything for
people. If you are a non‑believer,
he will heal you, pray for you, share the Gospel with you, and anything else
that Jesus would do. If you are a
brother in Christ, he will help you bear your burden, give counsel to guide
you, go out of his way to do anything to encourage you, just as Jesus would
do. Why? Because, for him to live was Christ. His life mirrored the life of Jesus, and the Spirit of
Jesus. If he died, he would do that
like Jesus also, with full assurance that he would be raised into the presence
of God, and gain reward beyond anything this life could offer. To die was gain, and so he could live free
of the fear of death, for it would only be a promotion.
The two
statements of Paul are linked so that the second is only true because of the
first. If your priority is different, so
will your prospects be different in death.
If you say for example, "For me to live is cash," then you
cannot say, and to die is gain, for you loose your cash in death. You do not benefit from it any longer. So what fits is, for me to live is cash, and
to die is pain. Death is a threat to
your meaning of life. The same is true
with any other priority. For me to live
as country, and to die is pain, for you lose country in death. For me to live is sports, and to die is
pain, for you lose that love in death.
We could go on and on, for if the meaning of your life is not something
that can survive death, it is not an adequate meaning. Paul found the only meaning in life that is
eternal, and that is why he could say, "For me to live is Christ, and to
die is gain." Death does not rob
him of Christ, for it joins him to Christ instead.
The
great challenge of the Christian life is to see how all of life can be linked
to Christ, so that all your loves, interests, and desires can be a part of the
total package so you can say with Paul, "For me to live is
Christ." This ultimate meaning
will give meaning to everything tied into it. But if you say, "for me to
live is_______(fill in the blank with anything but Christ), you have a problem
with idolatry. If you put in self, you are a self‑centered person, and
all of life will revolve around you, and you will not be Christlike. Hitler is
a good example of the self‑centered life. He was rejected at art school
for lack of talent. But in his sickly mind he felt he was a good artist. He
painted some pictures, and took them to an art museum to have them exhibited.
The committee looked them over, and turned him down. He felt is was a conspiracy, and he got the name of the five
member committee. He learned that three
of them were Jews. That is when he
decided he would get even with the Jews, for they were his enemies.
When he
came to power he destroyed that art museum, and he had a new one built costing
millions of dollars. He was so self‑centered
he had to have his way no matter what, and millions of Jews died because some
dared to stand in his way. Christ was
dethroned, and self was enthroned.
Every man in history who does this becomes an anti‑Christ. Hitler filled in the most important blank in
life with a bad choice, and said, "For me to live is self." It is a one word test to fill in the
blank. If you get it wrong, you flunk
the school of life. If you get it
right, you pass, and move on to a higher life, for then, death is gain. The meaning of life is really very
simple. It is a one blank fill in, and
what you put there determines your destiny.
In
contrast to Hitler who put self in the blank, listen to the great Spurgeon as
he fills in the blank. "I have now
concentrated all my prayers into one, and that one prayer is this, that I may
die to self, and live wholly to Him. It
seems to me to be the highest stage of man, to have no wish, no thought, no
desire but Christ..." It is one
thing to trust in Christ as your Savior, and to acknowledge Him as your Lord,
but quite another to say, "For me to live is Christ." In the one we take Him into our lives, and
we become part of the family of God. In
the other, we give Him our life as a tool He can use to be present in the
world. We are a tool He can fill with
His Spirit, and use as He used His earthly body to minister to a lost
world. You are only saved once, but
this surrender of your life for Christ to live in and through you, needs to be
done often, for self keeps on striving to take it back everyday. This is a great battle in spiritual
warfare. Who is going to get your body,
mind, and the resources they control‑the self or the Savior?
The
reason Bible reading and devotions often become boring routine for Christians is
because they do not see that everyday is a battle to fill in the blank
properly. Because we do not consciously
settle it each day that, "For me to live is Christ," we go off into
any one day and the reality is‑
For me to live is self.
For me to live is things.
For me to live is revenge.
For me to live is ______. Fill in the blank with many other issues.
The
alternatives are legion, and the point is, the purpose for all we do as
Christians in Christian education, Bible study, worship, devotions, and
Christian fellowship, is to help us to keep filling in the blank with,
"For me to live is Christ."
Paul had no idea how many days he would be alive in this world, but he
wanted everyone of them to be a day that counted for Christ. J. C. Levator wrote a poem that represents a
prayer we know Paul would gladly pray daily.
O Jesus Christ, grow Thou in
me,
And all things else recede.
My heart be daily nearer
Thee,
From sin be daily freed.
More of Thy glory see,
Thou holy, wise, and true.
I would Thy loving image be,
Enjoy, and sorrow too.
The
battle of the blank can only be won if we see it is a constant temptation to
replace Christ in that blank. The life
of St. Patrick is a great illustration of this. At 17 he and some companions were having fun at the beach when
they were kidnapped by a group of Irish thugs.
They were taken to their ship and carried away in chains to
Ireland. They were sold as slaves, and
for 6 years he endured the unspeakable horrors of slavery. He was filled with hatred and bitterness,
but at the same time he remembered his Christian teaching, and he surrendered
his whole being to Christ. He made a
sensational escape, and got back to the continent. For 20 years he tried to figure out how to get revenge on the
Irish for the hell they put him through.
For 20
years he fought the battle of the blank.
He wanted to fill it in as, for me to live is revenge. But the Holy Spirit within him kept saying,
forgive and go back to these pathetic people with the Gospel. His youth passed, and he became a mature
man, and a leader in the church. At
length he became a bishop, and Ireland was a part of his territory. He had to make up his mind on the blank in
relation to Ireland. Would it be
revenge, or the redeemer. St. Patrick
was one of the most famous missionaries of all time because he made the choice‑for
me to live is Christ. He went to
Ireland with a passion to share Christ with those people he once hated. His zeal led to a revival, and Christianity
spread like wildfire. Irish
missionaries were sent out over the world making Ireland the most missionary
nation on earth at that time. St.
Patrick became the Apostle of Ireland.
The place that was once his hell became his heaven on earth. He had won the battle of the blank.
St
Patrick is best known for this poem he wore on his breastplate. It is an expansion of our text.
Christ be with me, Christ
within me;
Christ behind me, Christ before me;
Christ beside me, Christ to
win me.
Christ to comfort and restore me.
Christ beneath me, Christ
above me.
Christ in quite, Christ in danger.
Christ in hearts of all who
love me.
Christ in mouth of friend and stranger.
Multitudes will be singing the praises of Christ forever because he won
the battle of the blank, and filled it in as Paul did‑for me to live is
Christ. Now Paul had many pleasures as
well as pains, and abundant blessings as well as burdens. He could enjoy a good sporting event as well
as the next man. He could relish a good
pot luck as much as anybody. Paul loved
life, and would not put a damper on the Christians need for enjoyment and
escape. The point is, these are not the
goals of life, or the purpose of life.
These are the perks, and fringe benefits. Their primary value is in making it a greater joy to live for
Christ. But when all of life's fringe
benefits become the center of life, they crowd out Christ, and lead to
disillusionment. We see this in the
poem by Dorothy Parker.
There's little in taking and
giving,
There's little in water and wine,
This living, this living,
this living
Was never a project of mine.
Oh, hard as the struggle,
and sparse is
The gain of one at the top,
For art is a form of
catharsis,
And love is a permanent flop,
And work is the province of
cattle,
And rest's for a clam in a shell,
So I'm thinking of throwing
the battle‑
Would you kindly direct me to hell?
Look for
example at the life of Earnest Hemingway.
His was the playboy philosophy which said, for me to live is
pleasure. God is not opposed to
pleasure. He is the one who made it
possible by the way He made our nervous system, and at His right hand there
will be pleasures for evermore. God is
pro‑pleasure. But like any value,
when you make it your goal, it becomes an idol, and a rival with the true
God. In other words, anything you chose
to fill in the blank that is not, for me to live is Christ is in essence, for
me to live is not Christ. Any good
thing can become a rival to Christ when it takes His place in the blank. It was so for Hemingway. He became a symbol of worldliness. It was wine, women, and song, with emphasis
on the wine and women. His immoral life
did not hinder his fame. He won both
Nobel and Pulitzer prizes. Playboy
magazine in 1956 said, "Sin has paid off for Hemingway.
Ten
years later after several attempted suicides, he succeeded with a rifle, and we
see playboy was right. Sin had pain off
for Hemmingway, for the wages of sin is death, and he was paid in full for his
choices in the battle of the blank. For
me to live is sin was his choice, and he was rewarded accordingly. There is no escaping the evidence of
history. The choice you make to fill in
the blank at the end of that sentence, for me to live is _______, is the most
destiny deciding choice we make in life.
May God help us to fill it in as Paul did, and be fanatics for Jesus.
7. COURAGEOUS FOR CHRIST Based on Phil. 1:19‑26
Max
Lucado in his book In The Eye Of The Storm tells the true story of poor
Chippie. Chippie was a pet bird just
peacefully perched in his cage when all of the sudden life was changed into a
living nightmare. It all began when
Chippie's owner decided to clean his cage with a vacuum cleaner. She had just stuck the end of the hose into
the cage when the phone rang. She
turned to pick it up, and as she said, "Hello," she heard a strange
sound in the cage. She looked, and
Chippie was gone. He had gotten sucked into the vacuum. She gasped, put down the phone, turned off
the vacuum, and opened the bag. There
was Chippie. He was alive but stunned
by his involuntary flight into utter darkness.
He was
covered with dust, and so she grabbed him and ran to the bathroom. There she held him under running water. When she realized he was soaked and
shivering she got her hair dryer, and blasted him until he was dry. Now you know what I mean by poor
Chippie. He never knew what hit
him. In a matter of minutes he had been
through more trauma then most birds see in a lifetime. A few days later the owner was asked how the
bird was doing, and she replied, "Chippie doesn't sing much anymore. He just sits and stares.
As we look
at Paul, the jail bird, we are looking at a man who has been through great
trauma as well. He has been sucked up
into a vast legal system where he is a mere pawn between the major players of
Judaism and Rome. To make matters
worse, it is not just his enemies he has to put up with, but his friends are
also trying to take advantage of his imprisonment to further their own
careers. But unlike Chippie Paul is not
singing less, and just staring at the prison walls. He is rejoicing, and looking ahead to a greater life in time, and
a glorious life in eternity. Paul is an
incurable optimist because he cannot lose.
For him to live is Christ, and to die is gain, and so no matter which
way the ball bounces, he wins. No
matter how much Paul was put through the mill, he never stopped rejoicing. He said to others, "Rejoice in the Lord
always," and he practiced what he
preached.
Paul was
honest about his emotions, and he tells us in verse 20 that he did have some fear
that he would fail his Lord, and be ashamed to stand fast if it would cost him
his life. Paul was not a computer
program to smile even when the roof was caving in. He was a man, and he had his weaknesses, and though he expected
to pass the test, he knew it would take a lot of courage. Paul was going through what we all do when
we think of being put to the ultimate test of our faith. What if a gunman said, "Deny Jesus as
your Lord, or I will pull this trigger."
We all sweat with self‑doubt as we ask, "What would I
do?" Would I have the courage to
die for Jesus, or would I hang my head in shame as I denied Him? Cowardice or courage‑which will it
be? Paul says that he hopes he would
not be a coward, but have the courage to exalt his Lord by either life or
death.
We do
not face the same pressure as Paul did, but the fact is, everyone of us faces
the alternative constantly between cowardice or courage. Let's look at these two forces that hinder
or help us to be what God wants us to be.
First consider,
I.
COWARDICE.
Shakespeare said, "Cowards die many times before their death. The valiant never taste of death but
once." His point being that the
fear of death that cowards feel makes them taste of death over and over. The courageous, however, only have to taste
it when it actually comes. Cowardice is
a paradox, for the cowardly fears to suffer, but by so doing he suffers far
more than the courageous. By trying to
avoid suffering he actually multiplies his suffering.
Cowardice brings on itself more of the
very thing that it fears. For
example: If I do not have the boldness
to tell my peers that I do not take drugs because of my Christian conviction,
they will keep bugging me to do so, and I will have to go through the cowardly
agony over and over of figuring out how to avoid it. I have to keep faking excuses, and being hypocritical. I add to the problem more misery than
anybody seeks to lay on me, but it is all self‑inflicted, because I am
ashamed to confess with my mouth that I want to honor Christ with my body.
One
bold and courageous confession of your Christian convictions can solve a mass
of problems. But because of cowardice,
and fear to speak out, Christians go through great agony in trying to please
both God and the world. Jesus said it
cannot be done, for you cannot serve two masters. Your cowardice will lead you to compromise with the world. And God will not be pleased, and neither
will you. The world, the flesh, and the
devil will be pleased with cowardice, but God will not, and you will add to
your own pain.
Peter
turned coward and denied he even knew Jesus.
Paul expresses concern that he not be ashamed if he has to take a stand
at great personal cost. The point we
need to see is, every Christian, at some point in their life, is going to be
tempted to be a coward. The best
defense against this is to be aware of the yellow streak that is in all of us. The fear of pain and suffering; the fear to
be rejected and made ashamed, is common to all. We have enough fears to make us fail in almost any trial. We are wise if, like Paul, we admit our
weaknesses, and recognize our limitations.
It is not being honest about our potential cowardice that will lead us
to make the very mistakes we most fear.
This
happened to Beethoven. He was ashamed
to admit he was going deaf. Everyone
else knew it, and they tried to advise him not to conduct a performance of
Fidelio. He would not admit his
limitation, but went ahead and created a disaster. The orchestra got ahead of the vocalist, and soon there was total
confusion. He threw down his baton, and
rushed from the building. He was later
found on a sofa with his head between his hands shaking with sobs. It was a painful experience from which he
never fully recovered. He died with
hope, however, for his last words were, "I shall hear in
heaven." It was his cowardice and
fear to face his handicap, however, that lead to failure in time, and it was
unnecessary suffering. He could have
been spared this burden had he been willing to acknowledge his weakness.
If Peter
would have said, "I have a fear of being accused of being guilty. I feel shame when I am identified with a
failing cause. I had better stay back
and see what is happening," he
could have avoided his cowardly denial.
But oblivious to his weakness, he stomps right into the presence of
Christ's enemies, and is forced to reveal his yellow streak. We do not always have a choice. Paul did not, for he was a prisoner. But we often do, and we need to avoid
situations where we know our weaknesses will lead us to be cowards. If you are a chicken to say no, then you
just don't go to places where you will be asked to do what you know is not
God's will for you. Be honest about
your potential cowardice, and you will be better prepared to either avoid it,
or be courageous to make the right choice.
Paul faced his potential cowardice, and was confident he could control
it, and when the test came he could exhibit courage. Let's look at his‑
II.COURAGE.
The
primary focus of Paul is on boldness of speech. The area where most Christians become cowardly is right here on
this issue of speech. Christians can
boldly boast of their love of sports, or their love of the theatre, or any
number of loves, but when it comes to the love of God, and the love of His
Word, they freeze up and turn as yellow as a dandelion. You would never dream that Paul would ever
struggle with this, but the fact is, a verbal defense of the Gospel, when it
can hurt you, and embarrass you, calls for the same kind of courage as that of
the soldier who is ordered to advance when machine gun bunkers are just ahead.
It takes heroic boldness.
The
Greek word Paul uses here is PARRHESIA. It is a word the Greeks loved, for it
represented one of the essential characteristics of their democracy‑freedom
of speech. A Greek citizen had the same rights as you and I have in our
democracy. They could speak out and disagree with the leaders of the land. If
we do not like a policy of the President, we can boldly go on T.V. or radio, or
write to the editor, and say in public that we think it is all wrong. We can be
so bold because it is a right, and the President cannot send police to shut us
up, as is the case in some countries where there is not such right. The Greeks
said, bring your complaints to the officials with PARRHESIA, that is, boldness,
and with a spirit of courage rather than cowardice. Socrates, Plato, and
Aristotle all saw this as a key virtue of their society. This sense of freedom
to speak boldly. They also wrote of its abuse where people insult and say
shameful things, and use their tongue as a cruel weapon to do harm. Like every
virtue, it can be misused, and become a vice.
In the
New Testament this word is used over and over to represent courage and boldness
in speech. Jesus said to the High Priest when he was arrested, "I have
spoken openly to the world, I always taught in synagogues or at the temple...I
said nothing in secret." John 18:20. The word PARRHESIA is here translated
openly. Jesus was saying that he taught boldly in public, and not in cowardly
secrecy. Jesus did not go about like a secret society with whispers and code
language with hidden messages. He spoke openly and courageously, and not behind
anyone's back. This is what Paul wants in his life. He wants the ability to
come right out and boldly speak forth his faith in Christ, and not become weak,
and back off denying that he knew Christ, as Peter did in his weakness.
Paul was
aware that he was a model for other Christians. He was the first Apostle to the
Gentile world. He would, by his behavior, set the precedent for all future
generations of Christians. George Washington was in this same boat as the first
President of the U.S. He was fully aware of how his behavior would effect the
rest of history in this nation. He wrote, "Few who are not philosophical
spectators can realize the difficult and delicate part which a man in my
situation had to act....I walk on untrodden
ground. There is scarcely any
part of my conduct which may not hereafter be drawn into precedent."
Washington was not only courageous on the battlefield, but also in the
life of his country. He set the pattern
for the leaders of our nation. He was a firm believer in Christ, and a man of
prayer who sought God's guidance in his
decisions. This bold faith of his made
it impossible for an ungodly man to ever reach that high office. Had he been a wimp of a Christian, or no
Christian at all, the whole history of our nation's leadership could have been
different. He boldly lead the way, and
though you may not agree with the faith or the methods of the leaders of our
land, you will note that there are none who dare to deny the Christian
faith. That is why Washington is the
subject of millions of sermons, and why thousands have taken on his name. Some of them have been very famous, such as George
Washington Carver, and Booker T. Washington.
According to the Smithsonian, "In 1800 "Federal City" became formerly known as Washington, D.
C. By 1932, the bicentennial of George
Washington's birth, his name had been conferred upon one American state, 32
countries, nearly 400 cities and townships, ten lakes, seven mountains, and
a host of schools and colleges. Streets and highways, parks and
monuments."
Most of
us have heard the story of Washington and the cherry tree, but I want to share
the details, for they illustrate the courage that Paul is writing about. Mason Locke Weems wrote the biography of
Washington that was read by millions in the early 1800's. The story that has become legendary is the
one of 6 year old George damaging one of his father's favorite trees. "George," said his father,
"Do you know who killed that beautiful little cherry‑tree yonder in
the garden?" This was a tough
question; and George staggered under it for a moment; but...with the sweet face
of youth brightened with the inexpressible charm of all‑conquering truth,
he bravely cried out, "I can't tell a lie, Pa; you know I can't tell a
lie. I did cut it with my
hatchet." "Run to my arms,
you dearest boy," cried his father in transports, "Run to my arms;
glad am I, George, that you killed my tree; for you have paid me for it a
thousand fold. Such an act of heroism
in my son is worth more than a thousand trees, though blossomed with silver,
and their fruits of purest gold."
The
courage to be honest when this could be what leads to personal pain is what
Paul hoped to demonstrate, and this is what we see in Washington as a boy, and
all through his life. He lived and died
a courageous man because, like Paul, he could say, for me to live is Christ and
to die is gain. Courage is based on
certainty. If you have no assurance
about the future, it is hard to take any kind of risk. Uncertainty makes cowards of us all. A Night to Remember is the story of the
supposed unsinkable Titanic. The
author, at the end of the book, says, "People have never been sure of
anything since." When the
Challenger exploded shortly after liftoff at the Kennedy Space Center, a lot of
people went through this Titanic syndrome again. How can you be sure of anything?
Life is just full of risks. This
is true, and Paul felt it too as he writes, "I hope I will not fail my
Lord, and be ashamed to stand boldly for Him." Paul had a twinge of self‑doubt, but he quickly recovers,
for he is certain of two things that make it impossible for him to lose‑to
live is Christ, and to die is gain.
Paul was
certain that if he lived he would be a channel of Christlikeness in the world,
and he was certain that if he died, it would not be a loss but a gain, for
being with Christ can never be less than even the best this life has to offer. Death is a promotion for those in
Christ. Paul could face the future with
a sense of optimism because whatever his handicap, as long as he is alive, he
is a tool Christ can use. If he died,
he is a tool Christ will take to Himself.
This kind of certainty and optimism makes a man courageous. History is filled with Christian people who
had every right to be pessimistic, for they were handicapped and burdened with
loads extremely unfair. David McKechnie
in Experiencing God's Pleasure tells of some.
Tim
Hansel, for example, was a big muscular man who loved to climb mountains. He fell one day and crushed several
vertebrae in his back. He had to give
up climbing with his body, but not his spirit.
In his book, You Gotta To Keep Dancin, he wrote, "My life is filled
with pain." But he adds, "I
have learned that pain is either a prison or a prism. Pain is inevitable but misery is optional." Like Paul, he chose to not be miserable in
his miserable situation. He chose
instead to keep on dancin, for he is convinced Kenneth Caraway is right when he
writes‑
There is no
box
Made by God
Nor us
But that the sides can be flattened out
And the top blown off
To make a dance floor
On which to celebrate life.
Paul was
in prison celebrating life. It was a
privilege to be alive even in his miserable setting, deprived of freedom,
because, no matter what life held, it was a channel by which Christ could make
His presence felt in the world. Can you
be that optimistic? Can you say that
life is hard, and there are so many burdens to bear, but as long as I am alive
this body and mind are tools Christ can use to make a difference. Just the way we handle our pain and
frustration can bear witness, just as does Paul's dealing with his
burdens.
Shakespeare
in Othello has the evil Iago say to Cassio, "He hath a daily beauty in his
life that makes me ugly." We
should feel some of this when we look at Paul's life. The beauty of his courageous commitment should make us feel at
least homely in comparison, and motivate us to examine our lives to see if
there is any measure of truth for us to say, "For me to live is
Christ." History is filled with
acts of great courage, but most of us feel like we will never have the chance
to show such courage. Sir Irving
Benson, for example, tells the story of John Simpson Kirkpatrick in his book
The Man With The Donkey.
John
was a plain private in the Australian Army in World War I. The allied forces suffered heavy casualties
landing on Gollipoli. Wounded men were
left to die because there was no means for transporting them. Kirkpatrick found a donkey and got the idea
this animal could be an ambulance. For
24 days and nights he went up and down the shrapnel‑swept gully putting
wounded men on the donkey. He saved
hundred lives. The Indians called him
Bahadur, which means the bravest of the brave.
It was inevitable that he would get killed, for he was in dangerous
territory, and he did. In Melbourne,
Australia you will find a statue of John and his donkey with a wounded soldier
on the donkey's back. He was a man of
great courage, and a hero.
The
problem with this kind of courageous hero is, he makes the rest of us feel so
inadequate. We cannot do what he did,
for we will never have the chance, and so it is with hundreds of such heroic
stories. But we are mistaken if we
think that is the only way to be a courageous person. There is more than one kind of battlefield, and the warfare with
evil is just as real as the physical battle.
Paul was not wielding a sword, and cutting down Roman soldiers, and
freeing captives. Paul was showing
courage by taking a stand for Christ, and making every situation in his life a
chance to witness for Christ. This is
the kind of hero the kingdom of God needs.
It is
the awareness that we are in warfare that will bring out the courage of the
Christian. It is because we sense no
urgency, as those in battle, that we get complacent and indifferent, and feel
no call to be bold for Christ. We lose
the sense of living in crisis, and so we feel no need for courage. Two of the greatest men the world has ever
known were born in our country in the same month. The key to the greatness of Washington and Lincoln was that they
were both engaged in warfare. They
fought the Revoluntionary War, and the Civil War. Warfare is a setting that produces heroes. They were very different men, just as Paul
was very different from most men, but they had this in common, that in their
warfare they were determined to be courageous for Christ.
8. PARTNERS WITH GOD Based on Phil 1:19‑26
Chuck
Swindoll was told this true story of Joe Gibbs, head coach of the Washington
Red Skins. Joe's friend Frank looked out the window one morning and there was
his faithful Labrador Retriever sitting on the front porch with something
hanging from the dog's jaws. A closer look revealed it was his neighbor's pet
rabbit. Frank panicked‑what was he to do? His mind raced through the
options, and landed on one he thought was best.
He
pulled the rabbit from his dogs mouth, and brought it into his kitchen. He
washed off all the dirt and gunk. Then he too it into the bathroom and pulled
out the hair dryer and blew the dead creature until it was nice and fluffy. For
a dead rabbit it looked quite nice.
That night after dark Frank crawled over the back fence and placed the dead
rabbit back in his cage. He then slipped back through the darkness, hopped the
fence, and breathed a sigh of relief. His scheme seemed perfect until the next
morning when there was a loud banging on his front door. When frank opened it,
there was his neighbor with the dead rabbit clutched in his hand.
"Frank," he said, "we have a real sicko in the neighborhood. My
rabbit died three days ago and I buried it in the back. Some nut dug it up and
cleaned it off, and stuck it back in the hutch."
You can
just imagine how stupid Frank must have felt in hearing the facts which totally
altered his whole perception of reality. He had totally misread the evidence
and assumed his dog had killed the rabbit. It is amazing how we can turn
reality into fiction by not knowing the facts. Most of the major divisions of
history that put men at odds with one another are based on this demonic
inspired ability to jump to conclusions without the facts. Men are forever
trying to make divisions where the Word of God is making unity. Men often live
in a world of fiction of their own making, and not the real world that God has
made.
Man
tries to divide the more female feeling approach to life, and the more male
intellectual approach, and thus, separate the head and the heart. Paul makes
all who so think feel stupid, for he links the two together as one, and says
that love is to abound more and more in knowledge. Man tries to divide life
into the good things and the bad things‑the positive events, and the
negative events. But Paul says that
this neat classification is an exercise in futility, for God uses the bad
things and negative events for our good, and His glory. You cannot compartmentalize life and keep
the good and bad separate, for going to prison was the way God advanced the
Gospel through Paul. The good and bad are
linked together.
Man
tries to separate the bad preachers from the good ones by focusing on their
motives, but Paul says that what matters is not the motive, but the message,
and so all the differences are not the issue, but the unity of all who preach
Christ. The fact of the united message
changes the whole picture of how you see the great variations and divisions of
the church. Man is constantly looking
for ways to divide and separate. God is
looking for constant ways to link and unite.
Division is the goal of man, but unity is the goal of God.
Man
tries to say there are saints and non‑saints, but Paul says, all who are
in Christ are saints. Man says, there
are clergy and lay people. Paul says to
the Philippians, you are partners with me in the Gospel. There is no division in Christ. Man
says, there is male and female in Christ, but Paul says, there is
neither male nor female, and in 4:3 he says, the women equally contended for
the Gospel at his side. Paul says, you
cannot even divide between God and man, for in chapter 2 he says, God became
man, and in Jesus Christ the divine and the human were linked forever as
one. Men love to distinguish between
what is human and what is divine less in mixing the two the divine gets
contaminated. Apparently God was not
worried about this, for He sent His Son to enter wholly into human nature. We don't have to worry that God will be
offended by linking man to Him as partner.
It is
true that man at best is sinful, and God is holy, and some things don't mix
well, like gas and water; sin and holiness.
We don't want to pretend like many cults do, that man is God. There will be an eternal distinction between
man and God, and man will never be God.
But the fact is, God made man in
His image, and He makes man His partner in the history of His plan of salvation. It is this unity that we want to focus on,
because of Paul's doing so in verse 19.
"For I know that through your prayers and the help given by the
Spirit of Jesus Christ, what has happened to me will turn out for my
deliverance."
I have
read that verse many times and never saw the implications. It seems like a mere matter of fact, common
place statement. But let me call your
attention to the rather shocking thing Paul has done in this verse. He has linked together as one in partnership
the prayers of the Philippians, and the help of the Holy Spirit. He even puts their prayers first before the
help of the Holy Spirit. Will this not
grieve the Spirit to be put in second place in the providence of God? Not at all, for the Holy Spirit is the
Spirit of Christ who humbly welcomes the cooperation and oneness of man's
prayers for the cause of the kingdom.
We love
to make division, and distinguish between the role of men and the role of
God. Paul does not do this. He links the prayers of men and the
providence of God. He makes them
partners, and makes them one. We cannot
claim to know that this is a fifty‑fifty deal with the prayers being
equal with the Spirit. But we cannot
say its one percent prayers and 99% Spirit either. There is no percentage breakdown, for that is not the issue, but
the issue is the partnership. God
includes man in his plan. What we do,
and what we pray for as Christians is not irrelevant to the plan of God.
Paul
counted on the help of man and God.
Here was one of the greatness men of God who ever lived. He was full of the Holy Spirit. He was gifted and empowered by the risen
Christ, and yet, he needed the prayers of lay people for his success. Christian leaders do not succeed just
because they are gifted and full of the Spirit. They need the support of God's people in prayer. Billy Graham has reached millions of people
with the Gospel because of the masses of lay people that back him up in
prayer. I don't know how God is going to
credit people for their role in the kingdom of God, and reward all according to
that role, but I have a hunch it is going to be surprising when we get to
heaven to see the great rewards that go, not to great leaders, evangelists, and
pastors, but to the unknown lay people who back them up in prayer.
Some of
the big names are like the preacher Paul deals with in this letter. They have false motives and sinful
attitudes, and you will see them poorly rewarded, but obscure unknown people
who prayed for them will be greatly rewarded.
The credit for the success of many God uses may not belong to them at
all, but to the people who pray for God to use them. This gives every child of God an equal chance to get the highest
rewards of heaven, for every Christian, however, handicapped and ungifted, has
an equal opportunity to pray for the gifted instruments that God is using. That makes praying partners as partners also
in rewards. Prayer is the great
equalizer. We cannot all be Pauls or
Billy Grahams, but we can all pray for the Pauls and Billy Grahams of history,
and be partners in the plan of God on all levels.
Paul was
no independent evangelist doing his own thing. He was a part of the body
needing the body to support him. He was not on who says, "I don't need
anybody. I've got God's support, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Pray for
yourself, but not me."" Paul needed the prayer and support of the
body , for he did not divide the support of God and man into two categories
where some needed one and others needed the other. Paul linked the two and said
they are one, and all of God's people need the prayers of men and the help of
the Holy Spirit.
If
someone ever asks you if you depend upon people's prayers or the Holy Spirit, do
not fall for this false division as if you are being more spiritual by saying
you only depend on the Spirit. The only truly spiritual choice is the say you
depend on both. Anyone who gets so spiritual that they no longer need the
prayers of men are fanatics who have forsaken the Word of God for fantasies of
their own making. If they sound spiritual to us, it is because we too have
forsaken the facts of God's revelation. God has made men partners in His
providence, and we are to be grateful, as Paul was.
One of
the best illustrations I have ever read of this partnership comes from the book
Simple Faith by Chuck Swindoll. He found this true story in Elmer Bendines book
The Fall of Fortresses. It is the remarkable story of a B‑17 Flying
Fortress that flew a bombing mission over Germany at the end of World War II.
The bomber took several direct hits from Nazi antiaircraft guns. A few even hit
the fuel tank, but by some miracle the crippled bomber made it back without
exploding. After landing, they discovered it was a man made miracle. Eleven
unexploded shells were removed from the bomber's fuel tank, and each was
dismantled. To everyone's amazement they were all empty of explosives.
Why in
the world would the enemy be firing empty 20 millimeter shells? They mystery was solved when a note was
found in one of the empty shells. It was in the Czech language, and had to be
translated. It was a short sentence that said, "This is all we can do for
you now." A member of the Czech underground working in a Nazi munitions
factory had deliberately omitted the explosives in at least these 11 shells on
his assembly line. He slipped this note in one hoping someone would benefit. He
would never know, at least in this life, if his prayer was answered and someone
was blest, and even saved by his small effort to overcome evil with good. But
there is a crew from a Flying Fortress who no longer questions the role that
men can play in the providence of God. They have their lives and a future
because of the partnership of God and man. Thank God for man, for he is one of
the key tools God uses in getting His will done on earth as it is in heaven.
The
lesson we need to grasp is that it does make a difference who we pray for. If
you dismiss your prayers for someone as being so insignificant as to be
irrelevant, you may be cutting yourself out of a partnership with the Spirit of
Christ to achieve a goal that God will not achieve on His own, because He
depends upon your partnership. This is both scary and exciting. It is scary to
think God might let a plan fail because He did not get our support. But is it
is also exciting and encouraging to think God lets us play a role in His plan.
Prayer may be all we can contribute to the plan, and it seems like a mere penny
toward the national debt, but don't minimize it, and lose your motivation to
pray. Your partnership in prayer is a mystery, and why God ever bothers to make
it a factor is beyond our comprehension, but we need to take it seriously. If
you know of a need of any child of God, lift that need to God in prayer.
You may
feel an impulse to pray for someone you know little about at a very strange
time of the day. Do not quench such an impulse, but pray for that person, for
you could be playing a key role in their victory. The poet has captured the
idea‑
I cannot tell why there should come to me
A thought of someone miles and miles away,
In swift insistence on the memory
Unless there be a need that I should pray.
Perhaps, just then, my friend has fiercer fight
A more appalling weakness, a decay
Of courage, darkness, some lost sense of right
And so, in case he needs my prayer, I pray.
Author unknown
Is it
pride to think there is anybody who needs your prayer? Not at all. If Paul is
right, and God makes man a partner in His providence, then your prayer may be
just that needed element for the success of God's plan. The Holy Spirit will do
His part without fail, but if His partner does not do his part, there may be
failure where success would have been easy.
If Paul
did not believe he could be self‑sufficient, and get by without the
prayers of the saints, and if he could not be content with the help of the Holy
Spirit alone, but felt the need for the prayers of men, who are we to dismiss
the prayers of others as a mere meaningless ritual of no real consequence for
life? Listen to Paul's amazing testimony in IICor. 1. Paul says he was facing
pressures beyond his ability to endure in Asia. He felt like he was going to
die it was so bad. But he says in verse 10, "He had delivered us from such
a deadly peril, and he will deliver us. On him we have set our hope that he
will continue to deliver us." Then he adds in verse 11, "as you help
us by your prayers."
Paul
credits the power of God for his survival to be sure, but he does not dismiss
the role of men and their prayers. He links them with God as a factor in his
overcoming the hardest battles of his life. The challenge of the poet was right‑
Draw if thou canst the
mystic line
Severing rightly His from
thine‑
Which is human, which
divine.
Paul did not waste his time trying to determine the
distinction between divine deliverance and human help. As far as he was
concerned, they were one.
This
partnership of God and man really gets front page covering with Jesus. He
implies that God often will not act on His own as the senior partner until He
get the O.K. from us through prayer. In Matt. 9:37‑38 we read, "The
harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Pray the Lord of the harvest
therefore to send out workers into his harvest field." Why doesn't he just
make an executive decision and do it? But no, He waits for the prayers of his
junior partners. But what if they don't pray? We can then assume the issue is
tabled until they do. By our lack of prayer we can hold up the progress of the
plan of God.
You have
three theological choices as you study Paul. You can be a Calvinistic Christian
and focus on the sovereign acts of God, or you can be an Arminian Christian and
focus on the human acts of obedience, or you can be a fully biblical Christian,
and focus on the two of them as equally a part of God's revelation. God is
clearly sovereign, and man is clearly free to obey or disobey, and so fully
responsible for his choices. Paul refuses to pick one and reject the other. He
makes them partners and nowhere is it more strongly stated than in Phil. 2:12‑13
where he writes, "work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it
is God who works in you..."
Everything you do, and everything you pray matters because God has made
you a partner in building your own life, and in building His kingdom on earth.
God made Paul a partner, and Paul says we are all partners with him, and so we
are all partners with God.
9.
THE PRAYER OF THANKSGIVING based on Phil. 1:3‑6
My
earliest childhood memories of being in church are of the rope that I could
ride. The thick rope hung down through
the ceiling in the church entry way. I
was so little that when the rope was pulled to ring the bell in the belfry, I
could hang on to it and get a ride as it would pull me up off the floor, and
then set me down again. It is a
pleasant memory in my mind, and my earliest thoughts of being in church are
memories of church being a fun place to be.
This memory was brought back to my mind when I read this statement by
Christmas Evans, the great Welsh preacher. He said, "Prayer is the rope up
in the belfry; we pull it and it rings the bell up in heaven."
For the
first time in my life this image linked prayer and fun. I had never given it a
thought that prayer and fun could be compatible partners. After all, prayer is
a solemn and serious business, and that is why we tell children to be quiet,
and stop having fun and clowning around. Bow you head and close your eyes and
knock off anything you are doing that could be construed as having fun. From
this childhood lesson we move on to a life time of having it drilled into our
brain that prayer is anything but fun. It is a chore; it is a challenge; it is
such a burdensome labor that it is one of the hardest aspects of the Christian life to develop.
C. S.
Lewis, one of the greatest Christians of the 20th century, describes the
feelings of millions of Christians when it comes to prayer.
"...Prayer is irksome. And excuse to omit it
is never unwelcome.
When it is over, this
casts a feeling of relief and holiday over the
rest of the day.
We are reluctant to begin.
We are delighted to finish. While we are at
prayer but not while we are reading a novel
or solving a cross‑word puzzle, any trifle is
enough to distract us....
The odd thing is that this reluctance to
pray is not confined to periods of dryness.
When yesterday's prayers are full of comfort
and exaltation, today's will still be felt as, in
some degree, a burden."
We
could quote many others who feel the same, and all the evidence indicates the
majority of Christians feel that prayer is a hard part of the Christian
life. Seldom to never does anyone
relate prayer and fun. I must confess I
certainly never did until this past week when I saw, for the first time, that
for Paul prayer was fun. It was a time
to be joyful, and a time of happy memories, and thanksgiving to God for His
abundant goodness and grace.
Let me
show you what has been before my eyes for years, but which I never saw until
the Holy Spirit opened my eyes to see.
Now I want to be the instrument to illumine you on what is clearly
revealed in God's Word, but is also
hidden because Satan does not want God's people to discover that prayer can be
fun. Look at the facts. Paul says in verse 4, "I always pray
with joy." Then in chapter 4 Paul
goes all out to make it clear that prayer is to be surrounded with positive
joyful feelings, and the negative feelings of life are to be eliminated. Listen to 4:4‑7, "Rejoice in the
Lord always, I will say it again, rejoice!
Let your gentleness be evident to all.
The Lord is near. Do not be
anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with
thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding will guard your
hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
Paul is
clearly revealing a life of prayer full of joy and thanksgiving. Eliminate the negative and accentuate the
positive. Prayer is to be a fun and
enjoyable time, and not a time we dread as a duty we have to be dragged into.
Paul lived the way he wrote for others to live, and he demonstrated these words
in his own life. When he was in the
prison there is Philippi, having been attacked, beaten, flogged, and locked in
stocks in a cell, we read this of Paul's attitude in Acts 16:25, "About
midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God..."
It was
one of the most miserable days of his life, yet Paul is enjoying his prayer
time, and he is singing hymns to God.
In the midst of pain he is finding pleasure in prayer. He is singing songs of thanksgiving, and
rejoicing in the Lord with the peace that passes understanding. Paul demonstrated the power of a thankful
heart to overcome enormous negative circumstances. Prayer is not the dark garment of despair. Prayer is a bright garment of praise that
will dress up the soul even on the dreariest of days.
It is
not that there is never a time for lament and a pouring out of the poison in
our soul to God. This is a legitimate
aspect of prayer as well, but the dominant note of Paul in prayer is the high
note of joyful thanksgiving. This
enabled Paul to look any direction in his life and see reasons for being and
optimistic Christian. We want to focus
on each of the directions Paul could look: The past, the present, and the
future, and see how his thankful spirit made prayer a fun time. First look at‑
I. HIS THANKFULNESS FOR THE PAST. V. 3.
"I
thank my God every time I remember you."
Paul had fun in prayer because his prayer was full of gratitude for
memories of the past. When Paul says
later in this letter that he forgets what is behind, he was not referring to
his past blessings, but to the burdens he bore. His past was not all good at all. It was loaded with bad things like being falsely arrested, and
kept in prison. He was treated like
dirt, and humiliated. He had to suffer
great injustice, but Paul says I forgot all that of my past, and I press on to
the future, and the prize God has for me in Christ.
What Paul does not forget is all the good
things and blessings he had in Philippi.
We have a choice as to what we bring on to the screen of our mind from
the computer‑like data bank of our brain. Some Christians chose to remember the hurts, the failures, and
the bad stuff of the past. That is why
you have Christians who are neurotics of all kinds, and depressive type
people. They have legitimate records of
life's injustices, and damaging negatives.
There is no question they have had some, and even many, raw deals, but
they let these bad memories dominate their memory. The result is, they seldom feel joyful and thankful, for you
cannot have these positive emotions when your focus is on pain. Imagine how depressed Paul would have felt
if he would have written to the Philippians, "I can't help remembering how
miserable it was to be in that damp moldy prison. I still wake up in the night remembering the stench of the other
prisoners, and the unsanitary conditions of the jail. The injustice of it all still burns me to the core as I languish
here in Rome incarcerated for doing good.
It truly is a rotten world, and hell is too good for the scum who treat
people like this." All of this
would be authentic reality, but it was not the reality Paul chose to remember.
Paul was
thankful for the past, not because it was free from evil and hurts, but because
he forgot that bad stuff, and remembered instead the goodness of the
Philippians, and the grace of God in his life.
Everyone of us could look back and pick out bad things in our past. People who did us wrong, and events that
were unfair are in everyone's past.
Everyone has their own personal copy of, when bad things happen to good
people. Some feel it is their gift to
be able to recall the negatives of life, and remember every terrible
detail. Then they wonder why the
Christian life is not making them happy, and why prayer is a laborious chore.
We need
to see that the only way to be a happy Christian, who can even make prayer time
a fun time, is to forget the bad past, and remember those things that fill our
minds with a sense of gratitude.
Precious memories for which we can thank God are the key to joyful
praying. Tom Landry, the Christian
coach for the Dallas Cowboys for many years said, "I suffer over a loss
like everyone else, but its how soon you forget it and get going again that's
important." If your thankometer
needle gets stuck on the negatives of the past, it will not work, and you will
be locked into a non‑thankful mode letting life's burdens, rather than
life's blessings, be the dominant influence in your life.
In the
book Tiger Of The Snows by Tenzig Norgay, one of the two men, who on May 29,
1953 reached the top of Mt. Everest said, "What I felt was a great closeness
to God and that was enough for me. In
my deepest heart I thanked God."
All the fears and frustrations, and the pain and struggle, were
forgotten. All that mattered was the blessing.
Only those who learned this can live like Paul with a perpetual thankful
spirit.
Examine
your memory bank, and ask yourself which memories do you tend to focus on in
the past. If you find you tend to
remember the negatives, you need to listen to Paul, and follow his
instructions. He practiced what he
preached, and that is why he is our guide to a thankful spirit for the past,
and a fun time in prayer time. Listen
to the focus he gives to the Philippians in 4:8, "...Whatever is true,
whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever
if admirable‑if anything is excellent or
praiseworthy,think about such things." If this is the kind of stuff you bring to
the screen of your mind from your memory bank, you too will, like Paul, be a
person full of thankfulness for the past.
Next look at‑
II. HIS
THANKFULNESS FOR THE PRESENT.
The same
principle applies here as to the past.
Which present realities are you going to choose to focus on? The fact that you are in prison unjustly, or
the fact that God is using this bad thing for the advancement of the
Gospel? The fact that you are separated
from your good friends in Philippi, or the fact that in spite of that
separation they are still supporting you in prayer, and by means of gifts. In the end of this letter Paul is so
grateful for their renewed financial support.
He says he has learned to be content in both plenty and want, but he was
thankful that they met his need, for even Paul found life easier when he had
plenty rather than being in want.
Notice
here in verses 4 and 5, the real source of his joy and thanksgiving and prayer
was their partnership in the Gospel from the first day until now. Right now in the present moment Paul felt
not alone, even though isolated in prison.
He felt like a part of a body of people who cared for him. Paul was thankful for the present because of
his partnership with people.
Thanksgiving is a relational thing.
If there are no people in your life adding to your joys and comforts,
then you are living a deprived life.
You have got to have relationships to be a thankful person. Paul was a million miles away from these
people, but they were still partners, and that oneness gave him a joyful and
thankful perspective on life.
Paul
was thankful for their gifts, but more thankful that he had partners who cared
enough to give gifts. In other words,
Paul, like all of us, enjoyed physical comforts, and was not opposed to having
some cash in his pocket. But the real
source of his gratitude was not the gifts, but the giving people. Sometimes we get so excited about good
things that we forget they are relatively insignificant compared to good
people. Paul had his priority on
people, and not their possessions. We
often forget that almost all of our blessings in life come to us through other
people. If we are thankful for the
blessings, but fail to see the value of the people they come through, we will
be operating on a lower level of thanksgiving.
The Jews
have a story that illustrates this lower level of thanks which ends up being a
no thanks spirit. "Rabbi Jacobs, I
need $50.00 to get out of debt," sobbed Gottlieb. "I keep praying to God for help but He
doesn't send it!"
"Don't lose faith," said the rabbi. "Keep praying."
After
Gottlieb left his house, the rabbi felt sorry for him. "I don't make much money," he
thought, "but that poor man needs it." I'll give him twenty‑five dollars out of my own
pocket."
A week
later, the rabbi stopped Gottlieb, "Here, God sent this to you!"
Back in
his home, Gottleib bowed his head.
"Thank you, Lord!" he said.
"But next time you send money, don't sent it through Rabbi Jacobs‑that
crook kept half of it."
Because he did not recognize God works through
people to bless him, he had a bitter spirit rather than a thankful spirit. If you don't find yourself thanking God for
other people often, you are taking the low road rather than the high road of
thanksgiving.
In 4:6
Paul says, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer
and petition with thanksgiving present your requests to God." Paul has a high view of what the Christian
is capable of doing. He feels the Christian
can choose where to focus his mind.
Life is full of things to be anxious about, but he says, you don't have
to give them your attention. You can
choose instead to focus on things for which to be grateful. Easier said than done, but he did it, and so
can we. Chuck Swindoll says,
"Worry forces us to focus on the wrong things." If you are anxious, you are focused on the
things that are wrong, or could go wrong.
But if you are thankful, you are focused on the things that are right,
or could go right. We all have a choice
as to where we focus our minds, and which choice we make determines whether we
are anxious or thankful Christians.
Paul
says if we choose to focus on what is right so that we rejoice with
thanksgiving, this will lead to a peace that guards our hearts and minds in
Christ Jesus. In other words,
thanksgiving is like a spiritual body guard that protects our emotions and
thoughts from being captured by the negative spirit that Satan would love to
get us ensnared with. The Christian who
is ever focusing on the negative that makes them frustrated and anxious is a
Christian with no security system. They
are sitting ducks for the devil to rob them of their joy in Jesus. A safe Christian is a thankful Christian. If you want to live dangerously, and risk
losing your Christian testimony, just leave thanksgiving out of your life. It is the equivalent of a layoff notice to
the Spirit of God. It is like saying,
your services are no longer needed. I
can take care of myself.
When
you hear a Christian locked into the negatives of life, full of bitterness, frustration,
and resentment, you know they have laid off the Holy Spirit, or as the Bible
puts it, quenched the Spirit. They have
lost the attitude of gratitude which enables them to see the present blessings
of life in spite of the burdens. Paul
looked right past the negatives all around him, and focused on the pleasant
blessings of the support and partnership of the Philippians. He was not going to wait for all to turn out
okay before he was thankful. He was
thankful right now in the present, for the bad things of life cannot rob you of
the good things of life, if that is where you focus. Next we see‑
III. HIS
THANKFULNESS FOR THE FUTURE.
Paul was
thankful every direction he looked, because God is same yesterday, today, and
forever, and He does not leave any good work unfinished. What He starts He completes, and the result
will be a truly Christlike people to enjoy for all eternity. Paul writes in verse 6, "Being
confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to
completion until the day of Christ Jesus." Paul was joyfully thankful because never stops working in us, and
through us. He never said the
Philippians were perfect. They had
their weaknesses and faults that he had to deal with. He never said he was perfect.
In chapter 3 he says he was not complete, but keeps pressing on, for the
best is always yet to be.
Nobody
knows better than Paul how poorly Christians can reflect the light of Christ.
He knew of their sin and follies, and all the ways they fell short of the glory
of God. He never wore blinders, or rose colored glasses. He was as fully aware
of Christians sins as any human being has ever been, but this was not his
primary focus. He had to deal with sin in Christians often, but his confidence
and thankful spirit thrived on his vision of the future. This is the
perspective of all the Biblical writers. The hope and expectation of the
Christian is a future where all in Christ will be what He is‑the perfect
example of what God had in mind when He made man in His image. When God
completes His work in us, we will be like Jesus.
It is
true, the vision of heaven that John saw in Revelation was filled with delights
for all the senses. The golden streets, the jeweled walls, the glorious light
and music that thrill the eyes and ears, plus the fruit for taste, and incense
for smell entice all of the senses to anticipate the ultimate in pleasure. But
the fact is, all of this would be meaningless without the people out of every
tongue, tribe, and nation that praise the Lamb for ever and ever. The bottom
line is never things, but always people. Jesus lived for people, and he died
for people. They were the treasure he came to seek and to save, and when this
focus of God becomes our focus, as it was of Paul, we will be able to praise
and thank God for the future.
The
future in Christ is loaded with people who are like Jesus. They love and care
and share, and make the future a paradise. The first paradise was no big deal
without another person to relate to. Perfection, beauty, and abundance do not
fill the bill. God made man so he cannot be complete without relationship.
People and paradise are linked as necessities. If you could have the New
Jerusalem all to yourself, you would be miserable, and soon realize it is
nothing but glorified hell without other people. Someone once said that hell is
other people, but the fact is hell is the lack of other people. Paul had a thankful spirit about the future
because he knew he had a future filled with Christlike people.
Paul was
thankful for the past because of these people, and their response to the
Gospel. He was thankful for the present because these people were his partners
in the Gospel. She was thankful for the future because these people would be
with him as perfected saints. Lets face the reality of this. Much, if not most,
of what we have to thank God for comes to us through other people. They are the
primary tools of God to achieve His purpose in history.
Consider
our American heritage from the Pilgrims. Governor Bradford of the Plymouth
Colony wrote in his diary of a man he called, "A special instrument sent
of God." He was referring to the incredible Indian named Squanto. His
story, and how God used him to save the Pilgrims from certain destruction is
one of the great providence's of history. Squanto was kidnapped and sold as a
slave and taken to Spain. There he was trained in the Christian faith, and then
sold to a merchant in England. He sent him with an expedition back to America.
He was back in his native land just six months before the Pilgrims arrived.
Here was an Indian who knew English. He helped the Pilgrims communicate and
form friendly relations with the Indians. He lives with them and taught them
how to plant corn, and to fish, and to use them as fertilizer. It is not likely
they could have survived without this gift of God. They thanked God often for
this man.
An
artist painted a picture of an old church with its time worn steeple. The bell
is there and the rope hangs down to the earth. Beside the bell sits an owl
suggesting that the bell had not been used for a long time. People are running
by it as the street is full of hurrying people, but the motto under the picture
says, "Why don't they ring?" Why don't we have fun in prayer by
ringing the bell of heaven by thanksgiving to God for people in our past,
present, and future? The opportunity to ring the bell of heaven by means of the
joyful prayer of thanksgiving is ever available. May God help us to pull the
rope, and add to the harmony of heaven, and the mirth on earth, with the prayer
of thanksgiving.
10.
THE SACRIFICIAL PERSPECTIVE
Based on Phil. 2:1‑11
One of
the major causes of human suffering is the fact that people see life from many
different perspectives. While we were
in Duluth we went to a park where we stood on a bridge and watched a bus load
of junior boys and girls eat their lunch on the rocks below. A lovely stream flowed over the rocks
creating a beautiful site with falls and pools of water. Further down a number of fishermen were on
the bank. It was a picture of pleasure,
but pain was nearer than anyone could suspect.
A young couple came past us on the bridge, and they made their way down
the stream, and then down into the valley where a very small island had formed,
and a delightful pool awaited the swimmers.
The girl sat on the sand, and the boy in his early twenties pulled off
his shirt and dove into the pool. We
were impressed with the natural pool, and standing in the hot sun we could
enjoy vicariously the refreshing feeling of the swimmer.
The
rocks hid him from our view, but soon we noticed that he came climbing up on
the rocks holding his neck. It was obvious
he had experienced some sort of injury.
He made his way back to the girl, and she quickly gathered up their
belongings, and they retraced their path back over the bridge where we were
standing, and into their car. I was
deeply curious as to the nature of the young man's problem, and so I walked
over to the only other swimmer in the pool who was also leaving the area
because of the accident. I asked,
"What happened to the other young man who was swimming?" He said, "One of the junior boys had
thrown a rock into the pool and it hit him in the neck as he was under the
water, and it cut a gash. They were
heading for the hospital for stitches."
Everybody in that beautiful setting was there for pleasure, but because
people find their pleasure in different ways the end result was pain and
suffering. Junior boys see such a
setting as a place for throwing rocks.
I cannot imagine a boy not wanting to throw rocks into that water. For the young couple in their twenties it was a place for a refreshing swim. Both perspectives were legitimate, for it
was a lovely spot for both activities, but just not at the same time. Both could have been enjoyed without pain
had they been experienced at different times.
But here were two people trying to practice perfectly normal and
acceptable behavior, but behavior which became incompatible when practiced in
the same place at the same time.
There is
nothing wrong with track events or stock car races, but to try and have them on
the same track at the same time would be a disaster. The point is, you do not need to be doing anything wrong to cause
suffering. Even right and good things
create suffering. You cannot be content
to ask only of your actions, is this right or wrong? You must also ask, is this selfish? Is this behavior which is good for me a risk of the well being of
others? It may be an okay thing in
itself, but is it appropriate in the circumstance? By broadening our perspective on life, we can prevent suffering
which is caused so often by a narrow self‑centered perspective.
The
accident we saw could have easily been prevented by all of the people
involved. The swimmer could have seen
the danger of this environment with junior boys swarming all over the
place. He could have waited ten minutes
to swim, and all could have shared the joy of the setting without pain. A few minutes of sacrifice for the sake of
the others enjoying their activity would have prevented the accident. Or the leaders of the youth could have seen that
the young man was going to have his own way and swim in that risky
environment. They could have warned the
boys to cease all rock throwing.
Neither of these things happened because everybody was operating from a
narrow selfish perspective that saw only self‑interest, and was oblivious
to the interest of others. Nobody was
being evil, and nobody wanted anything but pleasure for all, but a too narrow
perspective led to pain.
According to Paul in the text here in Phil. 2, the whole history of man
would be one of suffering without hope had Jesus had a narrow selfish
perspective. Had He said, "It is
in my best interest to cling to equality with the Father," there would not
be any plan of salvation. The whole
plan depended on Jesus seeing beyond a selfish to a sacrificial
perspective. The sacrificial
perspective sees life from the point of view of the interests of others. Because Jesus saw what was in our best interest,
He paid the price necessary for our salvation, and He prevented perpetual pain
by eliminating everlasting suffering for all who receive Him as Savior.
Paul is
using Jesus as the prime example of how all of us can prevent suffering by
developing a proper perspective. There
are only two basic ways in which all of us see life, and the one we chose as
our perspective determines whether we are a part of the cause, or part of the
cure. The selfish perspective sees life
only from the point of view of its effects on one's own interest. The sacrificial perspective sees life from
the point of view of the interest of others.
Paul says that one of the goals of Christian growth in Christlikeness is
to shift your perspective from the selfish to the sacrificial. This is no small task, for it goes against
the grain of our selfish nature, which Satan and the world encourage and
support.
The
world, the flesh, and the devil are all allies in strengthening the selfish
perspective of life that causes so much suffering. The majority of the influences in our culture push us to the
selfish perspective. It is only by
refusing to conform to the world, and by being transformed by the renewing of
our minds by surrender to the Holy Spirit, and obedience to God's Word, that we
can move from the selfish to the sacrificial perspective. I want to look at how these two perspectives
change all of life so we can see why it is worth the cost of moving from the
one to the other. Let's begin by
looking at‑
I.THE SELFISH PERSPECTIVE.
The
first thing we need to do is set the record straight, and make clear that self‑interest
is not a sin. We are made to be
responsible for ourselves, and we have an obligation to have self‑interest. People who lose this are not fine specimens
of humanity. They are the people who
have lost their pride and self‑respect, and no longer care about how they
look and live. They become their own
worse enemies. It is curse to have no
self‑interest. It is self‑interest
that motivates us to be our best, and achieve excellence in some area of life
by persistent use of our gifts.
Note
Paul's language carefully in verse 4.
He says, "Each of you should look not only to your own
interest..." He did not say they
should have no self‑interest. He
was saying they should not have such a perspective of self‑interest
exclusively. It is not that they should
not look at their own interests at all, but not that only. Only is the key word here for clarification. There is no point of feeling guilty because
you care about yourself, and the things that matter to you. That is not only normal and natural, it is
the way you are expected to see life.
To have no self‑interest is to be sick, and in need of healing,
for it is healthy to have self‑interest, and unhealthy not to have it.
The
problem is the extreme which makes self‑interest the exclusive
concern. Then it becomes the negative
we call selfishness. Paul in verse 3
says, "Do nothing from selfishness."
Selfishness is bad, but self‑interest is good as long as it does
not become exclusive. When it becomes
your only perspective it is a vice and not a virtue. There is a big debate on whether selfishness is good or
evil. Both sides have a good case
because it is matter of degree. If you
mean by selfishness, a concern for the self, and a focus on self‑interest,
then you are right; it is a virtue. But
if you mean by selfishness, and exclusive interest in your own well being
regardless of others; then you are wrong.
So many
debates are like this. Opponents are
talking about two different things, but using the same word to describe them,
and so they think they are in radical disagreement when in reality they are
not. It is important to define our
terms so we know exactly what we are talking about. The selfish perspective that we are looking at as the cause of so
much preventable suffering is not self‑interest, self‑respect, or
self‑esteem. These are all vital
to good mental health. We are looking
at that perspective on life that is self‑centered to the exclusion of
others. A person with this perspective
makes decisions and takes actions based solely on what is good for him or her
regardless of the consequences for others.
The drug
dealer, for example, has no concern about the destroyed brains and lives of his
victims. All he sees is the growing
bank account in his name. Self‑interest
is all he can see. It is this exclusive
nature of his view point that makes it so evil, and the cause of so much
pain. The druggist, no doubt, enjoys
seeing his bank account rise as well, and he has an interest in people using
drugs for the sake of his own benefit.
But he is respected because his perspective takes in the interest of
others. He dispenses drugs, not for his
own interest exclusively, but for the benefit of all who use them. This broadened perspective makes all the
difference in the world. He is
concerned about himself, but not only himself.
He has to have great concern for all those he serves so as to be careful
and accurate for their sake.
The
Prodigal Son was seeing life from the selfish perspective when he took his
inheritance and left home. He cared
only for his own pleasure, and nothing for the dream of his father. When he came back home he was still being
motivated by self‑interest. He
hated eating with the pigs, and living in poverty, when his father's servants
lived like kings in comparison. He came
home for his own good, and nobody condemns him for that. His self‑interest was a part of the
virtue that brought him home. But it
was no longer like that pure selfishness that led him away. Now he saw life from the father's
perspective as well, and that broadened perspective led to his salvation. C. Moore Hunt wrote this word for the
Prodigal:
It isn't that the way back
Is any longer.
The mode of transportation
is different.
Walking toward the father's
house
You see things you didn't
notice
On galloping away.
In
other words, the Prodigal had a changed perspective. He left with the selfish perspective, but he came back recognizing
he had sinned against heaven and his father.
He felt unworthy to be his son, and asked to be treated as one of the
hired servants. He now is grateful for
what he had, and hopes to get at least a portion of it back. He now knew he was responsible to God and to
his family. He is now even willing to suffer and sacrifice his rights as a son
in order to be restored to fellowship.
His selfish perspective caused great pain and suffering that was
unnecessary, but his sacrificial
perspective is now leading him to his greatest joys. He is now willing to be part of a team, and part of the family,
where he will pitch in and do his part for the benefit of the whole family.
Selfishness says all others exist only for me. The sacrificial perspective says we exist for each other, and
must be willing to suffer personal loss for the sake of the goals of the
whole. This is the foundation for
patriotism that sends a man off to lose his own life that his nation and family
might live. This is the foundation for
all Christian service. We give up
personal pleasure and satisfaction in order to enrich others lives that would
not be enriched if we did not sacrifice personal comfort. Let's look at this opposite of the selfish
perspective, and see how it changes all of life, and helps us be those who
prevent suffering.
II. THE SACRIFICIAL PERSPECTIVE.
By
sacrificial it is not meant the giving up of one's life for others. Jesus did
that for us, it is true, and he said greater love has no man than this that he
lay down his life for a friend. That is indeed a sacrificial perspective, but
we do not want to focus on that, for it is seldom to never we are called upon
to give our life for others. What Paul
is getting at in this text is that we move from the selfish to the sacrificial
perspective by simply letting others share in our concern. In other words, they get on our agenda, and
we look at their interests as well as our own.
It is a call to a broader perspective.
Selfishness does not care about the interests of others. It focuses on the self only. To give up this focus at all is to sacrifice
some time, energy, thought, and possibly even some resources for the needs of
others.
This may
seem like a waste to the selfish person, but the Bible says those who strive to
avoid such so‑called waste lose their life, and they waste the
opportunity to be channels of God's love in the world, and that is life's
biggest and saddest waste. We are
called to lose our life and thereby save it by sacrificing some of our time,
energy, and resources to care for others.
This is not waste, but that
which gives us worth. The very essence
of Christian living is the sacrificing of some aspect of our life for the sake
of others. That is what love is. It is the sacrifice of the self for the sake
of the other. Paul says in I Cor. 13:5,
"Love does not insist on its own way." That is the same as saying that love is not selfish, but it is
sacrificial.
We all
do this to some degree right along. We
have to sacrifice some of our life for the sake of our mates, children, and
friends. This often does not seem
sacrificial, for there is so much pleasure gained by this sacrifice. We need to recognize that sacrifice does not
need to be a negative experience. Love
is sacrificial, but it is also the most enjoyable experience of life. But sacrifice can be very hard when we are
called upon to look at the interest of others, and not insist on our way.
The teaching
of the Bible and the lessons of history make it clear that it is a virtue to
compromise one's conviction when that conviction is not a matter of biblical
revelation. In other words, it is not
wrong to be flexible, and to cooperate with an opponent on issues of human
opinion. When the father's of our
nation met in Richmond, Virginia to debate whether or not to adopt the
Constitution, there were radical differences of opinion among great men. For three weeks the debate went on, and
almost every day Patrick Henry spoke against the adoption. This great patriot feared it would lead us
into monarchy.
He
said, "You will sip sorrow if you give away your rights....It squints
toward monarchy. Your president may
easily become king...He will be a man of ambition and abilities; how easy for
him to render himself absolute....We shall have a king." He carried a lot of weight, and so when the
vote was taken it only carried by ten votes.
This ten vote majority agreed with Washington that the 13 states had to
become one nation. It was the first
time Patrick Henry ever lost. His
convictions were deep, and he fought for all he was worth, but when the vote
went against him he did not stomp out in stubborn defiance. He compromise and said that we must give the
Constitution a fair chance. His
flexible spirit of cooperation lead the majority to move in his direction and
support the addition of the Bill Of Rights to protect against the very things
he feared. Stubbornness could have led
to the disunited states, but cooperative compromise led to the United
States. Henry had the sacrificial
perspective on life. He had to give up
a lot of self to take on the interests of others.
There
are times to be stubborn and uncompromisingly committed to your
convictions. Thank God Jesus did not
respond when He was challenged to come down from the cross. He stubbornly persisted in laying down His
life for our salvation. Compromise
would have been the most colossal curse to mankind. When we know the will of God, we dare not deviate and compromise
His will with that of the world. But
even the highest of convictions which are only human can be, and ought to be,
compromise when by so doing we can obey God and live peaceably with all men as
far as it lies within our power to do so.
Even had it turned out that Patrick Henry was right, and the
Constitution led to a monarchy, he was still right to have given it a chance
rather than to stubbornly rebel and destroy any hope of its working.
Few men in the history of our nation have
had deeper convictions then Robert E. Lee.
He was convinced this nation should be divided and become two, with one
nation free to have slaves. He was a
handsome, brave, charming, and clever leader who had never failed in
anything. He was a born winner. But as he led the South in war against the
North he lost for the first time in his noble career. Men came to Lee after their defeat and said, "Let's not
except this result as final. Let's keep
our anger alive. Let's be grim and
unconvinced, and wear our bitterness like a medal. You can be our leader in this." Here was an offer to be stubborn to the end, but Lee shook his
head and said, "Abandon your animosities and make your sons
Americans."
He became
the president of a small college of 40 students. He had commanded thousands of young men in battle, but now he
wanted to prepare a few hundred for the duties of peace. He showed the nation how a born winner could
lose, and because of his submission and cooperative spirit he became a hero
even in the North. He lost the war, but
he won immortality in American history because he refused to follow the way of
the stubborn who insist on their own way.
These
men represent what we mean by the sacrificial perspective on life. It is a way of looking at life that does not
demand that others see it my way or else.
It is a way of looking at life that is willing to bend over backwards to
try and see why people think and act so different from you. It is a striving to look at what does not
interest you to figure out why it is of such interest to others. It is a willingness to say that maybe I am
not the center of the universe, and maybe all of my convictions are not the
final and ultimate word on the issues of life.
No man can do this easily. It
hurts, and it calls for a sacrifice of some aspects of one's self‑love. You have to give up the same thing Jesus had
to give up. He had to give up equality
with the Father. The selfish
perspective on life implies that we to are equal with God. We need to give up this illusion, and, like
Jesus, humble ourselves and sacrifice some of this self for the sake of serving
others.
11. A SEASON TO BE SELFLESS Based on Phil. 2:1‑11
On Dec. 7,
1682 the Great Law of Pennsylvania was passed which became the basis for
governing the state for 94 years. It
represented William Penn's ideal of a Christian state. It provided for religious freedom and the
protection of individual rights. It
provided for the care of poor and orphans.
It gave work to prisoners in contrast to England where they were merely
locked up. William Penn was a man
concerned about the interests of others.
He made just treaties with the Indians, and the Delaware chief‑Tammany
and he were great personal friends. As
long as they lived there was peace and harmony between their peoples.
Penn
arranged the famous "Walking Purchase" by which he bought from the
Indians all the land North along the Delaware River that a man could cover in a
three day walk. He walked off the first
day himself in leisurely fashion. After
his death his son Governor Thomas Penn hired three back woodsmen to complete
the purchase.